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Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  How do I stop being so easy?
A girl said right off the bat tht I was too easy. And my friends agree. I usually don't take what women say too seriously but I'm gonna actually listen to her on this one. I think I've been trying too hard. my friends say I gotta be more mean and not give a fuck.

She just saw me an said that. Ouch. And I don't look like a tough guy neither. what should I do?
Author:  Fluffs [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
I usually detach from everyone and stay on high Alpha if I got "too easy" to someone.
High Alpha would be busy, uninterested, aloof, independant (I'm always a loner, it's a preferance of my own.) light-hearted, open and slightly pulling to leave any conversation so others would feel that they're earning my attention somehow.
Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Yeah I just Isolated myself from the world today. playing with my old N64.
That was like a huge shock to my system.
Author:  hemster83 [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Quote:
A girl said right off the bat tht I was too easy. And my friends agree. I usually don't take what women say too seriously but I'm gonna actually listen to her on this one. I think I've been trying too hard. my friends say I gotta be more mean and not give a fuck.

She just saw me an said that. Ouch. And I don't look like a tough guy neither. what should I do?
I would have said " It's better to be easy than to be a cold hearted bitch who tries to cover up her insecurities by trying to insult others"

Sometimes you have to put women in their place. I'm generally a nice guy but if a woman calls me out on something I'll go ham on her ass
Author:  Fluffs [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 10:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Quote:
Yeah I just Isolated myself from the world today. playing with my old N64.
That was like a huge shock to my system.
With detach I ment becoming uninterested in what the girl/group is doing and finding something else, the 2nd best option, so the girl/group would know you don't need them, you can find someone or something else and be happy without them.
Author:  Jack-of-Clubs [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Not that I don't approve of N64 on a general note (golden eye hello), But I suffer from the same thing. Solo confidence boosting activities tend to work for me.

Especially exercise Running/swimming/martial arts makes u feel better and gives you some time away from your friends for some 'you time'
Author:  Fluffs [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 5:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Quote:
Not that I don't approve of N64 on a general note (golden eye hello), But I suffer from the same thing. Solo confidence boosting activities tend to work for me.

Especially exercise Running/swimming/martial arts makes u feel better and gives you some time away from your friends for some 'you time'
Life is better if it's an adventure, that's what I meant, do something cool and enjoyable that's with the girl but may be around her (best if she sees what you're doing and that you're enjoying it aswell.).

Finding all the options you can and taking only the best ones. And you need A LOT of options and so people KNOW you have options so everyone would feel that they're earning your presence in some way.
Author:  cold fish [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
I guess keeping your options open is always a better choice .
Author:  homer_147 [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 11:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I stop being so easy?
Quote:
A girl said right off the bat tht I was too easy. And my friends agree. I usually don't take what women say too seriously but I'm gonna actually listen to her on this one. I think I've been trying too hard. my friends say I gotta be more mean and not give a fuck.

She just saw me an said that. Ouch. And I don't look like a tough guy neither. what should I do?
practice negging! push pull, ying yang etc. neg your target then be nice to her friend etc etc.
you can have heaps of fun... if your nice by nature negging should be easy to adopt. do it in a fun friendly way, and enjoy the attention it brings. girls like to be teased :)
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