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| Author: | Blindman [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Scared of what people think of me or judge me. |
Here's a quick memo on me before.. Back in the days, I used to be careless of what people think of me, I'd dress how ever I wanted, I'd talk to anyone I'd wanted, I was rather popular and social. When I got rejected by a girl I made out with. It took me down, I became like shady, worried about everything and mostly, scared of people judging me. Now, I've recovered my confidence, dress well, you know and average looking guy, casual. Although my problem is.. I'm scared of what people think of me or judge me. For example today, I had to rush to school and dressed with unfitting clothes and I wasn't comfortable but I tried to ignore it. Yet this thing in my head kept making me think people we're judging me or shit. I felt like a huge pile of ''DLV''. An other example is I've got those Ray ban looking glasses but scared to wear them cause I think people would judge me for having fake RBs. In my head I keep telling myself that its fine but this thing in my head makes me feel super uncomfortable. You guys ever went through or felt this, if you did what can I do ? -Blind. |
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| Author: | clearspeak [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 1:02 am ] |
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All of this switch came from one girl rejecting you? You were unconcerned with how people thought of you and the one rejection led to you worrying this much? Or were there other factors in the change? |
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| Author: | Blindman [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 2:41 am ] |
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Well no it started with that then I noticed a bigger problem and so on, now those are dealt with, if seen a quote saying this "how are peoples thoughts going to lead you to an unenjoyable life?" ill try to keep that in mind, I might just be over thinking about things too much. Still anyone else ever been through this ? |
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