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Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 5:42 pm ]
Post subject:  my wingman is better than me
So you guys know of a situation when there's a hot girl and her friend is...unatractive? well the same thing happens with me and my wingman.

he's the hot chick and i'm the unnattractive nice guy.

how can i turn this around?
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:02 pm ]
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If your wing is better then you thats good.
It means you can learn and get better your selfe. Have him coach you and tell you where you are making mistakes.
Have him watch you infeild then give you some pointers if you need them. When you are both in set winging each other tell him to keep an eye on you and give you some pointers when you need them.
Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:03 pm ]
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Well ever thought of it that way....
Author:  anthonypham [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 8:59 pm ]
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If your wing is better then you thats good.
It means you can learn and get better your selfe. Have him coach you and tell you where you are making mistakes.
Have him watch you infeild then give you some pointers if you need them. When you are both in set winging each other tell him to keep an eye on you and give you some pointers when you need them.
This is true, when your wingman is better than you, you could learn from him. Actually a role-reversing has taken place: He is the pua, and you are his wingman.

While you are learning from him, please note that he will own every set. THe hotties will go to him, till you get better.....
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:48 pm ]
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This is not only NOT a problem, but it's how it should be. I mean, even if you guys looked the same, having two dudes who are equally unattractive or who have weak game isn't going to do either of you any good. And you certainly don't want an ugly/creepy wing messing up your game. So you are blessed to have a great wing imo.

Yea, maybe he gets the hotter girls in the set, but how many girls can he possibly get. If you open 3 or 4 sets in a night, he might close a couple of the hotties, but I guarantee there are going to be at least a couple left over. If you can't close them yourself, it has nothing to do with your wing. It means that YOU need to step up your game.
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 1:14 pm ]
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why must you turn this around, why must you be better, instead of beating him, help him and work together, he has strengths, you have strengths, work together and make each other better

other then that, if you can't get laid at all, not ever, and he gets laid on a regular basis, then the problem is not him, it's you, improve yourself, put some effort into actually becomming a person girls would want to sleep with

if you look in the mirror and see a guy you wouldn't want to hang out with, or a guy you think is unattractive, then you got some work to do until the day that the person that is looking back at you in the mirror is someone you are proud to be

no one will say it will be easy, it will be a huge challenge, maybe one of the hardest ones you have had to face in your life, change is difficult, just put one foot in front of the other, and eventually you will get there, just don't stop walking your path, don't get distracted, maintain focus and grow

GOOD LUCK
Author:  MrBreeze [ Sun Sep 02, 2012 6:06 am ]
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This is not only NOT a problem, but it's how it should be. I mean, even if you guys looked the same, having two dudes who are equally unattractive or who have weak game isn't going to do either of you any good. And you certainly don't want an ugly/creepy wing messing up your game. So you are blessed to have a great wing imo.

Yea, maybe he gets the hotter girls in the set, but how many girls can he possibly get. If you open 3 or 4 sets in a night, he might close a couple of the hotties, but I guarantee there are going to be at least a couple left over. If you can't close them yourself, it has nothing to do with your wing. It means that YOU need to step up your game.
Sound advice, Sounds like you have some personal experience on this topic. ;-)
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