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Author:  heyhoho [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 4:09 pm ]
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Author:  In$tinct [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 10:42 pm ]
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As TonyKing said... But I'd rather explain some on that "complex thing"

You should really get into the depth of his depression and find out more about this problem before you can solve it, and this is done by asking your friend questions. Like these:

How exactly does it make you feel down that the girls are predictable?

What do you think would make you happy again? What is missing in your life? Can you supply it? Is there anything that could replace it?

Then you can go into some reasoning without hurting him...

Obviously it's not every girl that is the source of your problem... Perhaps it's your ego generating it. And dropping it is easier than you'd think. As you drop your ego you experience that the problem is fading away... ceasing to exist.

Okay perhaps I went little NLPish :D Don't try it on a depressed friend unless you're a seriously experienced communicator... But anway... those questions can't hurt and it can really help to find causes and possible solutions to the problem. The idea is to give him choices. Or better drawn... make him give himself choices. Because currently he sees none.

Author:  In$tinct [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 10:36 am ]
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Yeah I know. I just personally think from experience that his ego is the source of his friend's problem and I wanted to make sure that he understands this.

Author:  heyhoho [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 1:38 pm ]
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hey guys thanks for the answers

i thought about it, and maybe i don't really know how he feels, maybe he is just having a rough patch.

Author:  In$tinct [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 1:59 pm ]
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Maybe... I don't know... Do you want to help him, or not? I'm always concerned when my friends feel down, and I listen to their problems carefully to find the causes and help them overcome it. I really am not telling you to get him into a trance and dig in his unconcious that would be just dangerous. Just ask him questions that may reveal things. And reassure him that you're there for him in these tough times.

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