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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Autism and Pick-up - any specialist advice??
Hey all!

I suppose I should tell you the unfortunate circumstances that have led me here before I get into the question.....

I'm a handsome, muscular man of 20, fearing for the future and finally taking the road towards self-development and fulfillment of that one area of my life I have never found much success in - women (NO DUUUH!)

The reason for this revelation game is largely due to inheriting hi-functioning, atypical autism that has hindered me for as long as I have known..... (yes, the stupidly smart kind).
To sum things up; I am autistic, but I have abilities like most other neurotypical 'normal' people - it is my EXPERIENCES of autism that have been engraved in me over time that I need to break through!

Although I have made out with women before, and have used what I already know of PUA to make myself appear very socially competent (social proof, for example...) - I have never been involved in any sexual act (close though...)

In a nutshell, I'm not a Sheldon Cooper - but I'm still not getting le poontang :P

The question I want to ask is this - Is there any specialist material on pick-up designed for autistic people??

Personally I believe it is pointless to be this specific, but seeing as there is no information on overcoming social-learning disabilities, I thought I would ask anyway :)

Please respond!
Ninja1992
Author:  "The Gift" [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 11:23 pm ]
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Stop worrying on what you don't have, and use what you do have.

You're superior to most on this forum with that stupidly efficient brain of yours. You can read material, and the theory of it and actually remember it and make sense of it a lot quicker, and better than any of us here.

But of course, theory is just theory. Out in-field will help you develop what you've read. Which could be a very dangerous combination (to women;-) ).

Do you go out much at the moment? Bars, clubs etc? and if you do, how are you and what're your nights like?
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 11:56 am ]
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Thanks! It's funny because I have made a lot of sense from PUA quite rapidly!

I can relate to that 1st statement - if an autistic man walks up to a girl and displays eccentricity + intelligence with incredible talents JUST BY BEING HIMSELF, then it's hardly a curse at all! I'd actually heard similar reports on forums for autism!

My nights usually vary - it depends on how I feel, so there's something I need to work on.....and I don't go out into town all that often, being a 2nd year student.

Usual issues with AA when I'm not in the greatest mood, although I can still talk to other people and create an aura of confidence/social prowess.

From my experiences of 'good' nights out - I can empower women to chase me themselves, I have achieved social proof before (not too hard in Preston), it's easy to make people laugh and make girls interested (like remembering what I've learnt, etc...), and I can adopt the ideal image and mindset I need and reinforce them in other people's eyes!
But there's still an issue of the number of girls I'm approaching - need to do this more!

I tend to operate more within my social circles - I've made loads more friends and met more women, but I need to use all these opportunities that are available to me!

Would really to start with daygame; being at a university is just awesome for this, but I don't have the time at the moment to start building up my social skills, engraving techniques into my head and overcoming AA.....
Author:  "The Gift" [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 2:05 pm ]
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I've just Facebook'd your E-Mail as Manchester isn't too far from Leeds.

We have one friend in common, and I K-Closed her...haha!
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 11:41 pm ]
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Nice one :P add me if you want bro!
Author:  Chief [ Sat May 12, 2012 5:40 pm ]
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Have you tried using sexual state?
Author:  the_noob123 [ Wed May 23, 2012 1:28 am ]
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dude i know what your onabout i have asperges wich is a type of autism based around social shyness . but how i got over it is by never getting over it, i remind myself thats it part of who i am and i look on the upside of it.the upside is im more intelligent from it and i am using it to my advantage by learning PU. all you need to do is change your attitude, your not a autistic dude with women problems your just a dude with women problems.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Fri May 25, 2012 10:17 pm ]
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Cheers Noob!

I should probably debrief you as to what I've achieved when I wrote this...

I've been PUA training with the Manchester Lair for about 3 weeks tomorrow, sarging minimum 3 nights a week. I've had more success in those 3 weeks than I have in my entire lifetime (in terms of 'closes')!!!!!!!!

I've been able to identify my strengths and weaknesses and address them accordingly.

I'm at that stage where I can average 1 or 2 kisses/number closes a night, although admittedly I think I could seize more oppurtunities that come across me on nights out. There have been oppurtunities to persist to a lay, but I've not gotten there yet.

When I enter a nightclub, it's not hard to win over people's trust and establish Mr Sociable (as Gambler might put it). Like women have qualified to me very quickly, opened me themselves (I have a unique fashion sense). I have been able to notice the effects of my hitting attraction switches in the field.

Something clicked last Tuesday when I sarged my favourite club in Preston - a HB7 came, sat down next to me and opened me herself. Within 2 minutes she qualified me big time and we were having a nice game of tonsil-boxing (apart from her lips were MASSIVE...), something I never could have hoped to do beforehand. I definitely think if I had wanted to take her home with me, I could have easily moved her about the venue and turned up the heat smoothly.

One qualfying comment she made really caught my attention, "You're the most confident person I've ever met." Me there like WTF?!?! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!

I think it's safe to announce that whatever drawback autism might give me don't exist anymore. You could say I am renouncing ever having been diagnosed with it :D

I am so grateful towards the benefits PUA training has given me thus far in just 3 weeks - I'm only going to keep growing stronger from here!!!

THANK YOU, AND GOODNIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author:  rhythmic02 [ Tue May 29, 2012 10:45 am ]
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Women love fun and different. In some ways, being a bit on the autism spectrum can be an advantage,
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Tue May 29, 2012 7:04 pm ]
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That is provided you have developed enough to actually sarge them confidently; only then do you have that unique niche. And fortunately I do :)
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