Well, I am AFC.Im not new to PU but stuck on some point.
Well until I got to this point.,I learned some,and I want to share.
AA is always the 1st obstacle you have to deal with,even before the approach itself.
What was I doing in the begging was the 3 sec rule.What was happening, I was approaching and getting stuck.But then from approach to approach I get this excitement feeling, getting on that wave of approaching, after 3rd approach in a row I feel comfortable.
So I sat and thought. What is it that getting me in this comfortable state of mind. I understood what works for me,-like how can I get this feeling before approach,how to get my mind into this uptime overclocked mode.
This is what i did.
A warmup.
I start socializing.
Yeah it sounds-"duh".But this is what i mean. You sit in a bar,and just ask someone -a guy, a girl,with guys its easier cos you don't think you're approaching. Ask anything,start talking' with anybody about anything.Or even add some comment about something random,girl/guy said.Then I ask,hey all these don't give a f*ck what I have to say.But in the, me too,I don't give a damn what they are thinking,I am here,I am confident ,I feel good because I am not afraid of being social.And just by being social I get into the mood,then I can approach hb open, dhv,and whatever+ if you were noticeable because of your "being social warmup" you already have social proof.
Maybe ppl will comment this post "there is nothing interesting/new" in your post,guess what, posting it for myself
