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Author:  Blissful [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 10:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Aproach Anxiety
So, My main problem is i just don't know how to open. Can anyone of you provide me with some tips, or maybe an opener to practice with.
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Aproach Anxiety
Quote:
So, My main problem is i just don't know how to open. Can anyone of you provide me with some tips, or maybe an opener to practice with.
Search the forum there is tons of stuff on this. Search youtube for approach anxiety too there is lots of videos on there that can help you as well.
Author:  Lionel [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 10:41 pm ]
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It all depends on your level of AA. If you have no approach anxiety, you just go up to her and tell her she looks really hot. If you have approach anxiety, it all depends on the severity of it. In my case, I have severe AA. So I try to open with easy openers like "Do you know the time ?", "Do you know where I can find ... ?", ...

If you are more advanced you can ask a question that needs more investment from her. For example, you can tell her: "I am new in town and don't really have an idea of where to go out. Can you advice me some places ?". From here the conversation can go anywhere. If you are advanced you can even ask her if she can show you around at night and go for her number.

But the most important thing is that you keep practicing. At least 1 girl a day. Be consistent ! I suffer from AA myself and people from all forums I know advised me to be consistent ! That is how majority of people with severe AA got over it.
Author:  Rob87 [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 1:01 am ]
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Ahaha, I'm still making progress on this myself, but i did notice one thing...In order to approach you're asking the wrong question.

My approach anxiety is still bad, but i noticed that when i focused on what to say, and what to do, it just made things worse. Took me a very long time, with a lot of frustration to realize that in the end instead of focusing on outer game (Which i always thought was the main reason i never got the girl) i started to focus on inner game and honestly...its true what they say, you're life in general will get better.

Sure the lines and tricks and gimmicks help, but in the long run, its not going to help you get the girl, its going to drastically boost your inner game!

Try Tyler Durden's Blueprint, its really long, but totally mind blowing :D
Author:  Wall1e [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 9:03 pm ]
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where can i find Tyler Durden's blueprint?
Author:  andrethegiant [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:36 pm ]
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hey Blissfull (great alias!)
This i replied to one of ur brothers. tried it myself and it made me a better pua.



set a goal of, say 25 "test"approaches.
walk the shopping mall and just ask a lady u would want to bed where the post office is or whatever. this just for the sole purpose of becoming at ease around babes.
just the notion of it being just a test will lower ur anxiety level.
and after 25 of these encounters u will notice one wonderful thing... u will feel more at ease approaching. and this will unblock your ability to make conversation.
immediate rewards can push u over the threshold like a pint of beer or a donut or whatever.
becoming a pua is like building a house. it is work in the beginning but afterwards it is solid joy
good luck and enjoy the adventure.
Author:  Lionel [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 1:41 am ]
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[quote="andrethegiant"]
set a goal of, say 25 "test"approaches.
walk the shopping mall and just ask a lady u would want to bed where the post office is or whatever. this just for the sole purpose of becoming at ease around babes.
just the notion of it being just a test will lower ur anxiety level.
and after 25 of these encounters u will notice one wonderful thing... u will feel more at ease approaching. and this will unblock your ability to make conversation.
immediate rewards can push u over the threshold like a pint of beer or a donut or whatever.
becoming a pua is like building a house. it is work in the beginning but afterwards it is solid joy
good luck and enjoy the adventure.[/quote]

Are you talking about 25 approaches in 1 day ? It would really help if you can manage that, but I really doubt someone with AA can do 25 approaches in 1 day. The best I ever did was 10 approaches.
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