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| Author: | THE BROTHERS CUP [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 12:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | getting the girl when she has anxiety issues? |
I have a friend im interested in but shes got some personal anxiety issues. now i love a good challenge but i need assistance on getting this girl out of her house to jsut hang out. we have hung out a bunch of times but she hasent been out recently. we talk all the time threw text so i need some text game bassed off this situation. she is also a coworker of mine but she works usually one or two days a week when im not working. just give me a hand trying to properly talk to a girl that has anxiety issues so i can get her to hang out again. its not jsut me..all of her friends always ask her to hang out and she never does like she did before. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 10:29 am ] |
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Wait, wait, wait... A friend AND a coworker? And you want to do her? First of all, let me warn you how bad this idea seems to me, but since it's none of my business I won't make more attemps to convince you. Other than that, I don't know how good friends you are, but you might want to know why she doesn't hang out with you guys anymore. I don't want to scare you, but if people do that, usually something not too pleasant has happened to them. If you ask her she would most likely not answer you directly but pay close attention to her body language in this situation and that may help you judge how severe this thing is. |
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| Author: | mesohorny [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 8:49 am ] |
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why do you want a weak girl with mental problems ? Think about it , are you not a man able to pick up a normal girl in the street ? If you are not then you do not deserve any woman at all. Stop trying to take advantage of that poor girls disease. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 8:58 am ] |
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Quote: why do you want a weak girl with mental problems ? Think about it , are you not a man able to pick up a normal girl in the street ? If you are not then you do not deserve any woman at all. Stop trying to take advantage of that poor girls disease. Perhaps...Just maybe...Despite her mental problems she's a very nice girl, and again...just probably, maybe he doesn't want to take advantage of it, just wants to help her. You know it's easier to get a hold on your mental problems if you have a happy relationship and friends. |
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| Author: | marty12345 [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:20 pm ] |
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A girl or guy with issues is not weak because of those issues. But there always will be a weakness in someone who calls random people names. There's a chance this girl may need professional help to deal with the anxiety issues and their causes. If you genuinely care for her, advise her to seek some help if she's not already doing so. Be careful of trying to get involved with someone who is going through something big. It's fraught with stuff. Be there for her but you are not her therapist. |
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| Author: | GinaB [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:58 pm ] |
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You need to go slow with her and gain her trust. Where do you go when you ask her to hang out? Find a place where she's comfortable or better yet let her choose. Once you've coaxed her out, try to find out the cause of her anxiety. It will eventually come out, there will be hints and listen to what is not being said. |
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