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| Author: | TheChallenger [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 5:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Either I am attracted to her or she is to me, never both |
Hey, I've got this "problem" with women that I just realized lately. When I meet women, it's either that I am very attracted to them but they are not to me, or that they are very attracted to me but Im not to them! It is so rare for me to meet a woman that is attracted to me and I am attracted to her as well (approximally once a year). WHY IS THAT?! 
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| Author: | TheLo [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 5:56 am ] |
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Do you think you act differently around girls you are not attracted to and to those that are attracted to you? If so.., try to act the same way you do with girls you're not attracted to; maybe that will possibly get some results. |
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| Author: | TheChallenger [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 7:30 pm ] |
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I do act differently, but it's something I cant control. It's like around attractive women I cant be myself, and around women who are attracted to me I can. |
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| Author: | Cha-Bra [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 12:45 am ] |
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First I am not PUA. Someday maybe... I do know that attraction is something that is subtle until you act on it. Women want you to act on attraction and build on attraction. The anxiety you feel is something we all feel. You have to get more familiar with it. Honestly I have a easier time talking to 6 and 7s rather then 8s and 9s. I feel like as a man I am a 8 so I should have no trouble going after these women who have a higher value in my mind. But I have issues... I get anxious.. Here is what I feel; attraction is like a balance you have to keep the balance until that moment when you both are willing to let go. I prob over think it as well again I am no PUA.. |
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| Author: | sPd13 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 11:45 am ] |
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its simple, when you are attracted to that person you act different around her. If you are not attracted you act chilled and that makes her feel attracted to you. Solution : Like someone said : when you put a girl on a pedestal, its all in your head. Stop thinking that a certain chick is better than you. Stop giving value to girls only because mother nature gave them big boobs and nice ass. You should be thinking like when you meet a new guy and want to see if he is cool enough to be your friend ,etc... |
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