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| Author: | Vida [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 6:25 pm ] |
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Well, people say that it's hard to meet women. Others say that it's not that hard but it just takes practice. Well I've got an activity for those AFC's out there that might still think that meeting women and having them become attracted is difficult. Logically it makes sense that a man is characteristically frightened to go up to a women and begin sarging. To quote Mystery in his first book The Mystery Method, "Logically, rejection causes us no harm. But emotionally, rejection can be a punishing experience. To understand this, we must look at the ancient environment for which we were designed. In a tribal group, there will be some small number of available women of breeding age. When a man approaches one, he risks rejection, and if that happens, all the other women will know, which will diminish his value in their eyes - maye to the poit where none of the women will mate with him. This is called Pre-selection - women look for social validation of their choices. A suitor who is pre-selected will be more attractive whereas a man who has been rejected will be less so." This is only one of the factors that have to deal with approach anxiety however, this is the most important. Now that we have located how approach anxiety works we might just be able to lessen the emotional stress caused by it or we might even be able to avoid it all together. Since approach anxiety starts with the idea that other women will find out whether you do well or badly in a set all we have to do is rid one's self of this consequence. Stated in logical symbology: if A&P=>x where A is approach, P is pre-selection, and x is approach anxiety then A&~P=>~x. So, how do we remove pre-selection from the equation? This is simple. Get away from your normal venue. remove yourself to a place where noone knows you and there is a high probability that you will never see or hear from them or their friends and vice versa. What I am saying here is if you live in Atlanta enjoy a nice trip to Charlotte, NC or Chattanooga, TN for some quality sarging. I have found that sarging while traveling is so much fun because whether you are successful or not in a set, only you have the power to choose to contact or have these people effect your life again. Speaking from personal experience. I was down in Florida this past weekend and every set I opened I owned. It was just a great feeling just knowing that you can be an ass with no consequences if you choose, you can even make up a whole new identity. I'd recommend trying this to the AFC and working with it till you realize how much success you have with a specific technique. Over time one should realize and internalize that if you live in a big city, there is such a huge population it is similar to living in a new city every night concerning the new people you have potential to meet and have the power to keep in contact with every night. cheers -Vida |
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| Author: | snubby (aka Zen) [ Tue Nov 20, 2007 4:35 pm ] |
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Good post, and good point. Those who live in big cities might just go to a different neighborhood than the one they live in to achieve the same thing. |
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| Author: | *bodhizafa* [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 11:06 am ] |
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I have to agree completely with you, We went on a road trip to Towson MD a few weeks ago and went to some local bars and i had no problem approaching any and every set in the place. Its much easier when you know you'll never see them again, i feel like it has definitely given me more confidence in approaching girls in my area. |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Thu Dec 27, 2007 5:59 pm ] |
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Nice post. |
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