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| Author: | AFCPG [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 6:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Undestroyable Anxiety |
Hi There I have a BIIG PROBLEM I just can start approaching ;( I've tried everything and all the results are the same... just cant start ;( |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:28 am ] |
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all in your head, if you think you can't do it, you can't, if you know you can do it, you can |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Undestroyable Anxiety |
Quote: Hi There
YES YOU CAN!!!!!I have a BIIG PROBLEM I just can start approaching ;( I've tried everything and all the results are the same... just cant start ;( If you have a mouth, and you are able to speak, then you can open! You are scaring yourself. |
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| Author: | Matt-C. [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Undestroyable Anxiety |
[quote="AFCPG"]Hi There I have a BIIG PROBLEM I just can start approaching ;( I've tried everything and all the results are the same... just cant start ;([/quote] You cant start approaching until you think you can. if your really that worried about the approach just start by asking for directions or something boring like that, at least it will get you to approach , then you can try to start using openers. small steps my friend 
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| Author: | Chai [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 6:30 pm ] |
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AFCPG you just gotta take baby steps man and just get out there and push yourself to go and approach girls it's the only way. How many times have you tried or what have you used before and what methods have you studied? |
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| Author: | InfluenceGenius [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 5:05 am ] |
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ya just start by asking for the time to girls at first. |
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| Author: | J-Easy [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 5:36 am ] |
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remember man they are just people, i bet you dont get scared to go up the mcdonalds counter to make a order or to go an talk to a co-worker at work...it's all in your head...work your way up from random guys to unattractive girls to more attractive girls wear something that makes your feel confident you got this man i beleive in you just do it hold nothing back who cares what they think you can focus on that later, this stuff doesnt happen overnight you have to keep pushing yourself |
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| Author: | TheSlug [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:42 am ] |
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You haev everyting to gain and nothing to lose. |
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| Author: | AFCPG [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 12:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AN |
Thank u for the responses guys So I'm 17 never had a girl. And this makes it kinda hard for me.I've studied many programs by David D,Mystery and venusian arts and etc. But still cant talk to a stranger girl. I cant even find a place to sarge cuz I cant go to bars and high school game is just social status but how can I gain one? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 12:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: AN |
Quote: Thank u for the responses guys
by approaching several, just have to do it and stop making excuses for yourself, you don't need a 'place to sarge' the world is your sarging ground, anytime you see a hot girl anywhere go talk to her, school, the street, coffee shop, book shop, bar, ANYWHERE, any reason why not to, is just an excuse your mind makes up out of anxiety
So I'm 17 never had a girl. And this makes it kinda hard for me.I've studied many programs by David D,Mystery and venusian arts and etc. But still cant talk to a stranger girl. I cant even find a place to sarge cuz I cant go to bars and high school game is just social status but how can I gain one? |
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| Author: | Real_Bitch [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 12:15 am ] |
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Dude, no matter how much routines you have, programs you know, scary weird-ass psychological interdimentional loophole you learned, seduction-bullet gun you own, love drugs you patented, huge cock you grow... You need to do SERIOUS work on your inner game / lifestyle. Even if you say you just can't... whatever reason you have not to do it, it'll only make you feel worse not doing it and finding excuses, because you know they're all just products from your male ego to protect the illusions you give to yourself. Bro, I was same as you when I started, exact conditions. You're beginning the hardest part of becoming a PUA, which is starting. You'll go thru the pain period, where you'll get rejected more than you can close, but you'll feel good about these closes. You should check Ross Jeffries' video about AA (youtube), which could help you great. Remember that you're working on making a better man out of yourself, which means you must be willing to DO it, just tell yourself you have to DO IT at ANY FUCKING PRICE, and even if you get rejected, you'll be VERY glad you've done it. If still you're not able to do this, then keep on living inside your comfort zone. Love ya, |
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| Author: | brary [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 8:27 am ] |
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think of it as "starting a conversation" with someone who is near you. no need to put a lot of pressure on yourself |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 12:05 pm ] |
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if your over 21, some alcohol would help 
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| Author: | AFCPG [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 5:54 pm ] |
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Other things I have almost no friends. And the guys from my class dont invite me to hang out with them anywhere... When they gather they dont invite me. I talk with everybody but...no one wants to hang out with me. I dont know what I have to change..maybe I'm a narcissisto or sth I dont know. And this kills me man nobody really likes me.I look well athough... |
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| Author: | SmoothOp [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:21 pm ] |
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I agree you need to work on yourself. I think in general you are too young to be mentally capable of being a PUA due to the maturity, determination and ability to take ego hits that comes with it. As for friends, based on knowing nothing about you, it seems from this post you are very negative and have no confidence. People like to be around positive people. Making friends is tough and it sounds like you are in a lonely place right now. My advice to you, start doing activities you enjoy doing, join a club, a gym, ect.. This will aid you in making friends and raise your self esteem. |
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