Okay, last night was my first night I had actually tried to put theory into practice. I have read almost everything about PUA, The Game, PUA season 1 and season 2 etc etc.
(Note: I often go out, I just have never used the game in my routine)
I was pretty nervous because I knew I would be doing this by myself even though I was with a good mate (AFC though). I had all the theory in my head, openers, negs, DHV, kino etc etc. I had needed to put it into practice. I've been studying the Mystery method for like 2 months now. I've tried to get my hands on anything possible through torrents and downloads.
Anyway, I thought the best possible way to ease the nervs was to go to a strip club.(vodoo louge) We entered, I smiled as I a walked in, nice strong posture etc. I bought a drink from the bar and made our way to a couch that was empty. We started to watch the show for about 10 minutes until we were approached by an Asian stripper( not a fan of asians btw). I looked as if she wasn't there and turned my head to carry on watching the show.
However when she saw I wasn't paying attention, she she started to talk to me.
Stripper: Hey baby how are you?
Me : Good, Busy day?
Stripper: Yea kind of
Me: Yea I can totally tell your hair is all over the place ( joking kind of way)
Stripper: It's a natural look haha
Stripper:Your hair is soo messy , you can't talk
Me: Yea but I styled mine this way haha.
After that I didn't pay much attention mainly cause she has big boobs and I don't like girls with big boobs. But what I should have was probably done an opener first, instead of neg straight away?
Any on to next girl
MORE SUCCESS with this one
The second girl that approached us 10 min later was a beautiful hot brunnete, like wow.
She came right up to and starting rubbing my leg and then proceeded to take a seat next to my friend and I
Me: ahh wow you just took the whole room up ( joking kind of way)
Stripper( still rubbing my leg) : You wanna take me into private?
Me: Why don't you buy me a drink first before hitting me?
Now she look at me with her mouth wide opened, shocked and swings her body away from me, with her back to me. Haha, I didn't really mind I was just practicing on these girls. Anyway the brunette stripper talked to my friend for like 2 min. I lean back like nothing happened. (Note: I was leaning back the whole time when each girl approached me)
I should have started with an opener again lol, but thing was, she kept touching me, so I had to neg her. BUT SHE ACTUALLY COMES BACK TO ME, KEEP READING.
Ok anway the brunette leaves us and we don't see her for like 20 mins. While I sit there chatting with my mate, I see her glancing over to me every now and then while she talks to some other AFC'S in the club. Ok, so the brunette comes back but this time she brings a friend. Still prentending to be unaffected by her charm, I lean back and still pretend to watch the show. When she approached me again, she fully starts grabbing me and stuff, then her friend starts touching my mate.
Ok, I was kind of lost for words, so I quickly used an opener.
Me: ok what do you think about girls with tatoos?
Brunette: Omg I have like 3, she proceeds to show me, neck, thigh and back.
Me: Ha cool, (NOTE:I couldn't finish the rest of my opener because my friend started to talk)
(The brunette flicked her hair back with her hand which I took as an I.O.I )
Brunnette: Wanna go have some fun in private?
Me : sure, Come back in 10 minutes
Brunnette: Ok promise, pinky promise?
Brunette: By the way what's you name?
Me: I'll tell you later
Ok by now I was thinking we need to get of here and start sarging at some proper clubs with normal girls. Because I wouldn't know what do if the brunnette came back.
So I left the strip club with my friend and and decided to go to this indie club. Ok now I started to get nervous again because it's alot harder to approach a set rather than having a girl approach you and running your game on them.
So I entered the club ( 3 second rule) found my set of 3 girls at a table by themselves, however now I had huuuge approach anxiety.(did not approach them) So I failed and burned. Left the club and tried another one. Failed there because I got nervous again. Fuck I'm never goning to see this girl again if I fail why am I soo fucking nervous?
Any way cut a long story short, I didn't approach any girls after the strip club, even though I had the game and openers all in my head, I was just too nervous.. Maybe I was just too comfortable at the strip club where the girls approached me first.
Anyway it was my first night on the game and I did manage to get some practice done, always next week. I just wish I had someone to sarge with.
I'm 21 by the way and go to Edith cowen university.