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Author:  Cash2 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  plz help !!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey guys !! its good to be on this forum. I'm really learning stuff.

Here is the problem I'm facing, I know this might seem to be completely AFC shit but still advice me....

I am studying in a college. I don't really go to bars and clubs and even if i do I doubt that i will be able to even approach a girl here in india.

So its mostly daygame for me.

The friends i have and form my peer group are all deep shit AFCs. None of them have a girlfriend, well not even i do for now. They know that i'm not socially adapted and have a problem with talking to girls.

I've been reading this PUA stuff for the last few months and whenever i try to interact with a girl and that also casually they start to make fun of me and mocking me as they think i'm trying to hook up with her.

Even guys who are not AFC and have girlfriends don't miss a chance to make fun of the situation and this is not just with me but they do this to each other too.

Hear i've to confess that i've myself been like this for the most part of my college like and really strained my relationships with some of the guys who are very social and have girlfriends and could have helped me to hook up too, even they have tried this but due to my ego and shithead behavior i missed a tone of chances with girls.

This whole environment around me has also made girls uncomfortable and try to keep a distance with me and my group.

Now i'm just left with a few months of my college and i've missed a whole lot of opportunities to make friends with girls and even girlfriends due to some of my own social deficiencies and somewhat b'coz of the whole social setup around me.

A boy in my group has already distanced himself from the group and is now friends with two girls in a different group !!

Should i distance myself from these guys like this guy ??

should i still be in the group and try to endure and break the shitty peer pressure they try to impose on me ??

Please help me........ :( :(
Author:  Laughing_rex [ Sat Dec 04, 2010 2:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Do u actually sarge?
Dude I can fully understand ur problem. Coz I am in a similar situation. I am also in a college and m frm kolkata.
I think changing groups is not the solution. I hav always been in a group of girls, N seriously its not worth losing ur friends over.
U know I also tried changing groups, But I realized group doesn't matter. Its only ur personality that matters. like neil strauss says,"U shud be ur best self".
Try to see the positive in ur frnds. Girls can sense a guy with positive attitude, N they like it. I think u shud be sarging more. Practice is the only thing that will make u better. Mystery took 10 years of practice.
I try sarging in malls. Delhi has lots of them.

P.S.: Follow the 3 second rule.It is specially difficult in malls becoz they have long corridors. By the time the girls come close u will be freaked out.

P.P.S: N also have patience
Author:  Cash2 [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 8:42 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thank you rex for replying.
I had been quite busy for a couple of weeks that's why can't post on the forum.

Yes I too feel that the most important thing for me is to practice and that's what i'm unable to do.

may be i'm afraid, a little problem of procrastination and loads of other shit ass excuses that stop so many ppl in this world from having a more fulfilling life.

will surely work on it. support from u guys is the only thing i've got in this matter !!
Author:  Xploit [ Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: plz help !!!!!!!!!!!!
ofcourse u have to get rid of them idiot. and if u are not getting right responces u are NOT doing it right.
Quote:
Hey guys !! its good to be on this forum. I'm really learning stuff.

Here is the problem I'm facing, I know this might seem to be completely AFC shit but still advice me....

I am studying in a college. I don't really go to bars and clubs and even if i do I doubt that i will be able to even approach a girl here in india.

So its mostly daygame for me.

The friends i have and form my peer group are all deep shit AFCs. None of them have a girlfriend, well not even i do for now. They know that i'm not socially adapted and have a problem with talking to girls.

I've been reading this PUA stuff for the last few months and whenever i try to interact with a girl and that also casually they start to make fun of me and mocking me as they think i'm trying to hook up with her.

Even guys who are not AFC and have girlfriends don't miss a chance to make fun of the situation and this is not just with me but they do this to each other too.

Hear i've to confess that i've myself been like this for the most part of my college like and really strained my relationships with some of the guys who are very social and have girlfriends and could have helped me to hook up too, even they have tried this but due to my ego and shithead behavior i missed a tone of chances with girls.

This whole environment around me has also made girls uncomfortable and try to keep a distance with me and my group.

Now i'm just left with a few months of my college and i've missed a whole lot of opportunities to make friends with girls and even girlfriends due to some of my own social deficiencies and somewhat b'coz of the whole social setup around me.

A boy in my group has already distanced himself from the group and is now friends with two girls in a different group !!

Should i distance myself from these guys like this guy ??

should i still be in the group and try to endure and break the shitty peer pressure they try to impose on me ??

Please help me........ :( :(
Author:  Andy Nice [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 11:36 am ]
Post subject: 
Have got to make your way away... U dont need to distance yourself ALL of the time. Just do what you've got to in order to game to your full potential.
Author:  Cash2 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:50 pm ]
Post subject: 
Yup I realize that to you that I have to distance myself from them to game.
Now I hang out only with those guys who understand things and don't react stupidly.
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