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| Author: | Love_Hunter_Machine [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 12:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help in my situation! |
Ok long story short. I got a friend, known her for years but only recently started hanging out. Been hanging out for about 6 months now. So we got pretty close. Anyway shit happened and i ended up telling her i had a little thing for her. She didn't exactly return the favor but she took it cool. And I told her it's not a big deal and she shouldn't worry. So I wasn't lying, it really wasn't a big deal but we continued to hang out heaps and I fell for her. She recently confronted the situation because she wasn't sure if my feelings have gone or grown. I couldn't lie to her, I said it was still there but she still stuck to her decision of "not looking for a relationship". So what do I do to fight this? Is this the classic friends zone situation? |
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| Author: | J-Dub [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 2:25 pm ] |
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Yup, you are in the infamous 'Friend Zone'. I posted a topic on this very situation. You can view it here: how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone-vt57874.html So, according to that article one mistake you made was spending too much time with her to begin with without pursuing her from the get go. The second thing you did was to tell her how you felt. You need to find out what kind of guys she is attracted to and start being that guy. Put some space in between you two and start seeing other woman. The longer you two hang out as friends, the deeper you will get into the 'Friend Zone'. Read that article over and over until it all sinks in. Best, J-Dub |
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| Author: | Love_Hunter_Machine [ Fri Dec 18, 2009 12:27 am ] |
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I wish I read that before hand. Ive just never had the friend zone trouble before so I thought I could go through it in my own way haha, big mistake. The advice you've given makes sense. I'll give it a shot. And I know the kind of guy she goes for so that's one thing I don't need to find out. But she is the kind of girl who will settle down for a long time if she finds the right guy which means she's picky and doesn't just go for anyone hoping something good will come out of it. So one thing i'm afraid of is her finding someone new, I don't want her to be the one that got away. HB8, but personality brings it to 10 hehe |
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