hey so first time posting but here it goes... me and this girl have been best friends for a while and we had a thing but i didnt want to go out with her then and now i really fell for her hard. We hooked up before (not sex) and i told her i liked her and she said she didnt feel the same and well we continued our friends with benefits one day i asked her why she didnt like me and she said "idk i just dont see u that way" (friend zone). so i had a plan i am going on vacation for 3.5 weeks i just wont talk to her during that time and ill come back a changed person and that should work. well it may have worked if this guy didnt come in and screw things up. they met lik 2 or 3 weeks ago and they r head over heels for each other. which got me mad because i have tried so many things for the past year to get her and nothing has worked. so i assumed she wants something new. but idk what to do?? any advice??? im really stuck here
