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| Author: | DennyTernt [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Very need advice on book |
Hello, I need advice on a nlp books which can help me to improve my communication. I fail to open a conversation or maintain a conversation. Even if I ran into group of my classmates I graduated together, we just say hi to each other, I ask a few boring questions, they answer, and my communication is over, so they start talking to each other, and I don't now how to join to their conversation. So i need book which help me to open/maintain and join conversation and make friends. |
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| Author: | A.T [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 1:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Very need advice on book |
Lol, that happens to some of my friends. I guess you guys didnt know each other very well or didnt have enough good times together. or either not the time/mood to talk. Do you have a feeling of leftout? I'd say there are many details that made up this problem, for example, how you look, ur aura, body langauge, I'm still fixing mine cuz people always said i looked too bad ass with long hair. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Very need advice on book |
You don't need NLP You just need to start having conversations with people. |
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| Author: | A.T [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Very need advice on book |
Sometimes, you dont join their conversations becuase you simply can't. You can't suddenly butt in a group of people and involve their convo becuase they will treat you as an intruder. Unless they are a part of your social circle and you can say somehting like "what are u guys talking about?" An alternative way is you prepare your routine, canned material, blah blah blah and make them listen to you. I know its hard becuz u guys might not be in the same channel, might not share the same interest. |
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