Went solo tonight. Again since I don't have a descent wing here in Michigan. Went to 4 bars. Had a chick open me at the first and somehow killed the Convo. I just wasn't in the mindset I guess. She totally would have came home though. I don't know what my deal was. Just wasn't on my game. I think I just got tired of standing alone and was thinking about how good a Wing would be I between sets. So I really regret that one. At the second bar, I chick I recognize but don't know opened me. Her male friends weren't to hot on it though. I couldn't handle them constantly blocking me and looking to start trouble. They backed off as soon as they figured out I didn't give a fuck and was def up for ruining they're night. I fb closed this girl as she was in a hurry to leave. I sent her a message soon after about it was to bad her friends stepped in and ruined what would have been a great night. So after two fails the next two bars were a flop. I was down and out. Need a pep talk about solo sarging!

Bitchin man. Great info. I'm definitely going to keep this in the play book. I appreciate the words of wisdom. The past few weeks I've done something similar. I go out alone, and usually some drunk DDR will bump into me shortly after getting inside somewhere and start chatting to me from there. In those cases I can then relax and scope out the rest of the area. But it makes sense to do what you said just walk up and purposely chat with some guys. I tried using the 3 second rule, but it's tough for me to find a desirable set that quick and I end up walking in and looking over the entire place and blowing the venue.

Also you're right about isolation. I need to practice up on that as well. I'll give this a run tonight and see where it Takes me.

Thanks again man!

Breaux, I once crapped in a first dates bath because I had a bad case of the runs, so it could have been worse x

Ya for sure bro. I need to find a good set of stupid Hott chicks before I move in. If I use the 3 second rule I've ended up with an ug from a amateurs group following me around all night. I think if I can find a couple guys just hanging out and getting drunk I can use them for my prep stage before I find my set.

Haha nice. Good tip for sure. But doesn't a couple of beers loosen you up and get you a bit more relaxed to game?

Another good tip is to do a couple redbull infused shots and then just stick to the real redbull afterward. Clears your head and if you start thinking about your art immediately after taking the shots, it will be more focused for you.