Is it harder to get laid, if you don't drink. I don't drink. Using alcohol, whether it be wine or not can often be very romantic. I have come to the conclusion that you can't reduce someone you know unless you're on a night out. You can't seduce someone during the day, on the job, around college, etc.

If you want to try and make a move, (whatever type of move) it seems as if it HAS too be at a party, nite club, or bar. Of course you can get to know the girl elsewhere, joke with them, appear independent, etc, but not flatter! What other circumstances can one think of, (apart from what I mentioned) to make a first move.. if you ask a girl out she's going to say no, in fear of it being awkward and because it shows you care too much which looks insecure.

Only people over 25 are actually mature enough to go on a dates without having kissed previously! And if you're not drinking, then you're not in the zone and look like a snowman. Therefore, I find it hard to find situations to get girls that I like(even if they like me too) alone.

Indeed, it seems if you don't drink or dance.. you're SCREWED. If you disagree with what I said, or if you can think of any unorthodox stories of how you made a first move, feel free to let me know. Should I start drinking if I want to lose my virginity? I'm afraid I'll get hooked? I already find it hard to masturbate less than 3 times a week.. especially when I get stressed