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| Author: | Asif [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 2:19 am ] |
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Okay guys , I am getting a bit depressed. I was very social, funny and dominant most of my school life. I was just naturally good at interacting with girls and had a tight social circle. I was also pretty popular. However, I came to the U.S more than a year ago and my game has suffered since then. I am not as fluent in english as native americans and don't have the american accent. I miss those days in my home country where I used to be the center of attention. I regret the fact that if I had stayed back in my country, I could have atleast slept with fifty girls in five years. I was average looking but very skilled socially. I wish I was back home having fun |
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| Author: | IAmMaynardJamesKeenan [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 10:21 am ] |
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Why did you go to the US in the first place? If it was for the money, I hope it was worth it. |
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| Author: | Asif [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:01 pm ] |
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I didn't want to come here. But my parents made the decision to immigrate and obviously I had to come with them. This is because I am young (19). I was born with money, I don't have a very strong desire to become richer. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My sad story |
Quote: I didn't want to come here. But my parents made the decision to immigrate and obviously I had to come with them. This is because I am young (19). I was born with money, I don't have a very strong desire to become richer.
Unfortunately your social circle game will not work well here for now, learn how to game in a way that is less talk, i had and have you same situation(thick latin accent) it can be overcome, more physical game lets talk, more texting etc... You will need to learn how to cold/warm approach... where are you from? where the people that are you from hang out? ---> this is another strategy to target your demographics(would be ideal)... Anyways pm if you need any help.. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:24 pm ] |
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Oh, the horrible life you have to endure. Being forced to come to the greatest country in the world against your will. And not be able to speak their accent, eventhough you already speak their language, a further travesty. On a productive note, you need to be adaptive if you are going to be a pua. Adapt to your new environment and overcome. |
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| Author: | chakara [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:42 pm ] |
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Yo ... just keep on trying to improve your game by approaching more often then not ... and focus on what is not working. Most people who come to America lives in a community of their native people, so it may not be that your in a new land, you should be able to connect to the ladies within your own community...I just gave this advice to someone else...don't be afaid to invest in yourself by buying books to improve your game, we all had to. Go to http://mysterypua-pua.com/ there is a free eBook offered, and there is a list of the best books to improve your game...check it out. |
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| Author: | Asif [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 5:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My sad story |
skills360, I am from Bangladesh and chakara I have thoroughly studied all the material of the major pua gurus. Thanks for the advise u guys. And puaninja, I know America is the greatest nation in the world, but it is not the greatest nation for puas, trust me. |
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| Author: | IAmMaynardJamesKeenan [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 6:50 pm ] |
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Quote: Oh, the horrible life you have to endure. Being forced to come to the greatest country in the world against your will. And not be able to speak their accent, eventhough you already speak their language, a further travesty.
Any examples for this? I wouldn't put it in the top 20, but I must admit, I got a bit different priorities.
On a productive note, you need to be adaptive if you are going to be a pua. Adapt to your new environment and overcome. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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Quote: I was born with money
this is why you were getting laid in the 3rd world, that doesn't work as well here as having money is common and doesn't instantly translate to social value. and as far as you being lazy, I think that's what you said, than the USA is certainly the wrong place for you |
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| Author: | Asif [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 4:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | My sad story |
I meant I was good with girls who had the same social status and wealth as me. It was mainly because I was skilled socially. And I didn't say I am lazy |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 12:43 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Oh, the horrible life you have to endure. Being forced to come to the greatest country in the world against your will. And not be able to speak their accent, eventhough you already speak their language, a further travesty.
Any examples for this? I wouldn't put it in the top 20, but I must admit, I got a bit different priorities.On a productive note, you need to be adaptive if you are going to be a pua. Adapt to your new environment and overcome. Other nations like in Europe and stuff may have better pickup opportunities, but they don't have donuts like we do! |
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