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| Author: | Fluffs [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 9:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I stand up for myself and my gf? |
OK, so I had a bully a BIG FUCKING GUY insulting and teasing me at school, so I just went all in and told him what I thought at that moment and he just laughed. I'm going to try to make him respect me by simply standing up for what I am on about against him, I'll just go in and tell him something like this. "Hey, dude, you really have problems respecting others as they are, you must feel like a piece of shit if you constantly have to step on others just to prove you're something more than you show. Do you know what respect is? Because I thought I could respect you before, now that I see who you are, you seem like a piece of shit. Come punch me or something, idgaf, my LORD *teasingly*. You seem like a huge ruler but it's just because of your abs don't see anything else behind you. Fear isn't respect, it's FEAR. Yeah, I'm not afraid of you so it must mean I don't respect you, actually I DO respect you, but only as I SHOULD respect you, I see you worked hard to get the muscle, good for you... don't rub it in my face. I know you could respect me for me simply coming up to you and telling you all this shit, right in your face, fearlessly. I'm just defending who I am, I'm defending my girlfriend and my life, if you can't respect that, then go fuck yourself." I could add direct negs there and DHV's so he gets me better. I know I'll have to keep incredible posture while doing this (which is hard for the first time, but fuck that idc anymore). If that doesn't work I'mma do something that I'll probably regret later. -.- And thanks for the help guys, I might not get killed afterall. PS. The whole class is with me against the guy, he's a freaking asshole, they probably just think I won't handle it, but fuck the problems, I HAVE POSSIBILITIES. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 12:32 pm ] |
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Try ignoring him. |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 1:29 pm ] |
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Quote: Try ignoring him.
Can't I use this as a DHV if I say the right things? I know I can make him respect me, I just have to stand against him correctly. Others would see me differently aswell then. It would also boost my confidence and self-esteem if I pull it off.I know he could just mess me up real bad, (socially) but honestly there's not much to lose, I could mess his confidence up and create a feeling of respect for me. I know the shit he doesn't think about when bullying people, I know it's a way of life for him, but I could show him that there's a better feeling which would be respect if he takes me in seriously. I need to show my guts and brainzzzzzzzzzzz. I have a terrible reputation at school. .__. ...aaaaaaaaaaaand he's in my class. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:13 pm ] |
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It's been so long since I've had to deal with bullies in school I can't hardly think of what to do. As an adult, I consider bullies as "Type A" personalities, which are basically just Alpha's or AMOGs. These kinds of dudes need attention and an audience first and foremost. That's why ignoring them often takes the wind out of their sail and disarms them. As far as using words, you probably don't want to be all aggressive and nasty, as that will either make you look bad, play into what he wants, or incite violence. You may be able to put him in his place by calling him out in front of others and tell him he is just being a jerk and a bully and it's not funny. Make it kind of ugly and embarassing. Then if he keeps it up, other people might join in and tell him to stfu since his behavior is now noticed by everyone in the class. |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 3:47 pm ] |
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I was excactly thinking that, he called my gf a whore, he doesn't even know who she is, I'm not gonna take that kind of attitude from ANYONE anymore. (Actually there's 2 of them, but if I deal with one the other will respect me enough.) I so wanna fuck his face with my fist but I'mma better keep that to someone I can handle. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 4:31 pm ] |
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Unfortunately violence only compounds the problem. But I can understand your rage. |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Fri Sep 21, 2012 6:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Unfortunately violence only compounds the problem. But I can understand your rage.
I have inner game to deal with the violence, if he attacks, he's pretty much screwed later on. Everyone's gonna hate him though, if he attacks someone who clearly gets everyones respect from his talking.
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| Author: | blackinferno8 [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 4:44 pm ] |
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just be like what is your problem? i am like half your size get a life and walk away. |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:11 pm ] |
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Quote: just be like what is your problem? i am like half your size get a life and walk away.
Thanks, it turns out they actually respect me for the first time I raged at them, funny eh?I can just play cat & mouse with them now and make them look bad while that. yay. Thanks for the reply, though. |
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