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| Author: | TXkrush [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Game on a Budget - no car... |
Im thinking I need to bite the bullet and work harder at saving for a car. Im sure this would help my game alot but im trying to stay confident about being able to still run game while riding the bus around town. My situation is, I make an okay living but im not at a point where I can go out on expensive dates once I do get a number. I pay child support and I am in the process of paying off some debt. This seems to worry me when I think about sarging and day 2 game. Any suggestions on gaming on a budget? Its taken me couple of weeks to raise my confidence to go out more and talk to women even though I dont have a car. For a while I wouldnt talk to women because of this. How does it look to meet up with someone and if they have a car and tell them if they want to stop by your place, but if you would have to ride with them in their car.... |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:24 am ] |
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Irrelevent but it sucks I know. Been in your situation plenty of times and it always ended up not in my favour. 1 You can try inviting her to your place or inviting yourself to hers early in the game process and then don't invite her out ever again. That way if she likes you she'll know her only choice but make sure you don't go sexual about it. If she calls you out on being a player play with it and keep it cool. 2 Tell her as soon as the interaction starts flowing. Putting it out as a fact is of 2 major benefits for you. You are at that point of your life that as you explained you are a bit short on money. Girls like successful guys but if you are smart about it you can stand out with your plans for future and other parts of your lifestyle or personality. For example having a kid that you pay for shows you're affectionate. It will also teach you not to be embarrassed about your money situation which should be the case anyway. I've built enourmous emotional connections with girls that I've gamed well enough and being myself but just confident about it. I assume your not looking for a gold digger either so don't allow her to be one. I'm guessing you are a bit older than me and your believes are that a man should pay the bills and a women should take care of the children and all that crap. A girl would ONLY choose a provider if she can't find her ideal man. I've got a video fro you from one of the greatest PUA Adam Lyons who talks in details about that and gives great examples that are actually made by real psychologists and are proved. You can convise yourself by putting it on practice. 3. Perfect your game so you can be the one that is the "Gold digger" ;p Literally I can think of other solutions but I have a headache cause I have men cold so I'm leaving you to these. If apply them and don't like then and I decide you tried well enough I'll try and think of other solutions even tho these should do as they did for myself and I think they are the ultimate |
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| Author: | TXkrush [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:20 pm ] |
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Quote: Irrelevent but it sucks I know. Been in your situation plenty of times and it always ended up not in my favour.
Appreciate the help NickAFC!1 You can try inviting her to your place or inviting yourself to hers early in the game process and then don't invite her out ever again. That way if she likes you she'll know her only choice but make sure you don't go sexual about it. If she calls you out on being a player play with it and keep it cool. 2 Tell her as soon as the interaction starts flowing. Putting it out as a fact is of 2 major benefits for you. You are at that point of your life that as you explained you are a bit short on money. Girls like successful guys but if you are smart about it you can stand out with your plans for future and other parts of your lifestyle or personality. For example having a kid that you pay for shows you're affectionate. It will also teach you not to be embarrassed about your money situation which should be the case anyway. I've built enourmous emotional connections with girls that I've gamed well enough and being myself but just confident about it. I assume your not looking for a gold digger either so don't allow her to be one. I'm guessing you are a bit older than me and your believes are that a man should pay the bills and a women should take care of the children and all that crap. A girl would ONLY choose a provider if she can't find her ideal man. I've got a video fro you from one of the greatest PUA Adam Lyons who talks in details about that and gives great examples that are actually made by real psychologists and are proved. You can convise yourself by putting it on practice. 3. Perfect your game so you can be the one that is the "Gold digger" ;p Literally I can think of other solutions but I have a headache cause I have men cold so I'm leaving you to these. If apply them and don't like then and I decide you tried well enough I'll try and think of other solutions even tho these should do as they did for myself and I think they are the ultimate I was raised by a single mom who instilled in me that a man should pay for everything and I am about 34 years old but I have a baby face so I look like im around my mid 20's or so im told, but I think its just the culture that hinders me a little bit. I think I am getting over it and maybe I just need a game plan when I go out. I can afford a cab home from a nearby club so I think that may be part of my game plan. There are a couple of PUBs, a few clubs, and bars not too far from my place. Adam Lyons is the main reason I am on these forums, and I dont think I have seen this vid yet, so I thank you for that. If I could afford one of his bootcamps, I would definitly go. I think preperation is the big thing for me on this. If I dont drink I think I would spend almost nothing as well, although this might be strange at a bar where you go to drink. If I can just drink one and then just run game I think I'll be allright. |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 12:33 pm ] |
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I was raised by a single mum too and at first when I started going out i Would always buy a drink. But now my believes totally changed and stopped drinking cause it's bad for me and for my wallet  I have a girl coming to my place to take care of me now cause I have a cold and she's buying me the medications ... Everything is possible you just have to believe it |
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| Author: | TXkrush [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 3:32 pm ] |
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I think I will try to cut back on the drinking and just game sober... You are right man. Check out my lay report. Dude, I got to thank you! You got me in the mindset where it doesnt matter if I have money or a car. This girl let me driver her car. And I got the lay! This was last night. Great advice bro! I really appreciate it. I freakin love these forums! |
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