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Author:  Consistence [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 11:00 am ]
Post subject:  This forum changed my life!

Was introduced to several PUA forums 3-4 years ago (this being the best one) after being really bad with women, even though having good looks. Always ended up in the friend-zone being too nice. Got really interested in this PUA stuff and wrote a word-doc with a lot of information on how to improve myself with woman and life generally.

Few months later going "from nice_boy to cool_boy" after applying a lot of PUA stuff, I got myself (2,5 years ago) my first serious relationship. The reason I went into this relationship was to develop myself sexually (not a good thing to base a relationship on, I know. Think Hobbit (admin here?) mentioned that this relationship was doomed, and he was right… read further), but she was a hot woman. I have always had better than average looks so getting a pretty girl wasnt that hard with all this new information.

Naturally in all men lies the premature ejaculation mode (you know… the man who can fertilize a woman fastest will produce the zygote ) So there I was, virgin and all, finishing my first sex-session after 5 pumps. But hey, I had sex, it still counts! Not a virgin anymore... Applied a few things from this forums, like how to get off a woman with fingers and tongue (first times she was really excited, had never had an orgasm before), but 1 year later I still couldn´t last more than 30 seconds…
She said my premature ejaculation wasnt a problem because I could get her off in other ways, but we both knew it was a problem. It ended up with her sharing sex-pictures over web-cam with her ex-boyfriend but we (actually, I) continued our relationship (just look at old posts from me, crazy shit!), because apart from the sex, we was the perfect match (you know, personality)
Look at the post here: caught-my-girlfriend-cheating--vt65632.html

Again I started to apply things from this forum on how to remove my premature ejaculation (started doing Kegels and you know the other things said in here) My sex problems was still there… couldnt last longer than 30 seconds, so I ended up giving her several orgasms with fingers and tongue everytime we had sex… which had gone from 3-4 times a week to once to twice a week - always me initiating

We ended up moving in together (1,5 year after our relationship started because we matched really good apart from the sex) – really bad idea. Meanwhile I started to last longer in bed, now 1-2 minutes and still obv wasn´t satisfied, she wasnt either. so I upped the training. Suddenly she went away for a month living at her mothers house far far away (during vacation) and both of us knew that things were going stale. During this period I really improved my stamina in bed by doing excersices and buying a fleshlight. MAJOR IMPROVEMENT 8)

3-4 months ago, the day after she came back to our apartment I busted her making out with one of my best friends (both drunk) at a party.

Had foreseen this: pua-seduces-my-gf-what-to-do-vt76488.html

I broke up instantly. The next day we contacted the landlord because I want to move out, but he said we had to live together for 1 more year due to the contract (what a situation). Ended up having make up sex once during the next week – I couldn´t come. We both thought this was due to the special situation (a little thought in my mind was thinking on the fleshlight training tho). Me being able to last this long gave me really good confidence and I didn´t care that we werent together anymore. We went out with friends and I started talking with other women, started being more with friends and didnt care what she did. But she didn´t do anything to anyone else. She clinged on me. All the time. Something had changed :)

The next weeks we had sex like 5-6 times a week and we still have. We are not boyfriend/girlfriend anymore. Fuckfriends? We are officially single and no one knows we have sex apart from her girlfriends. Been 3 months now. I can now choose when I want to come inside her and our sex-life has gone from 1/10 to 8/10 - due to a simple device I bought from the internet.

She has probably ”fallen in love” with me again due to this change, and due to the fact that we match so good together, now also with the sex :D She wants to get back into a relationship (always asks this after sex) but HELL NO. When I had PE she had total control of the relationship and I was afraid of what she would do being out alone (just look at all posts I have made during the last 2 years!)

The situation has changed. We are not together anymore. She wants to be, Im not going to get back into a relationship with a cheater (even though I can understand why she got frustrated). She hates when Im out with the guys now. She always wonders where I am. I can choose when I want to have sex, becuase she initiates (never happened before)! I never ask for sex anymore. I now feel like the fucking king knowing that I can satisfy a girl with my penis, not only with fingers and tongue. I have started to look at other girls now. Dickhead still having sex with her? Maybe. Is it smart to have sex with her now? Maybe not.

I dont fucking care. Right now life is awesome and I would like to thank...
...THIS FORUM :)
TOTAL CHANGE OF MY LIFE :D :D :D

Author:  adelphi777 [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:17 pm ]
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Hey Consistence, I read this post & your others, you're an amazing guy and exactly how I wanna be. You've inspired me to make a change!

I've been with my gf for 8 months, had PE for the last 6 months and we're now on a break. I've got to fix myself. I've just discovered the PUA community and this forum. I realise I am Mr. Nice Guy and that's gotta change...

I read a couple of your posts and you mentioned how you beat PE, I've just started reading "The Sex-God Method" and bought a stamina training unit fleshlight that gets delivered next week... have you got any more tips for overcoming PE?

You're an inspiration!
Adelphi

Author:  Consistence [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 7:41 am ]
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Hey Consistence, I read this post & your others, you're an amazing guy and exactly how I wanna be. You've inspired me to make a change!

I've been with my gf for 8 months, had PE for the last 6 months and we're now on a break. I've got to fix myself. I've just discovered the PUA community and this forum. I realise I am Mr. Nice Guy and that's gotta change...

I read a couple of your posts and you mentioned how you beat PE, I've just started reading "The Sex-God Method" and bought a stamina training unit fleshlight that gets delivered next week... have you got any more tips for overcoming PE?

You're an inspiration!
Adelphi
Hey, cool that you get inspired by me :D

Yes, that PE is a bitch. You will feel like a new person when you can fuck your gf for as long as you want. I have been able to do that for a long time now, so now I take it for granted. But when you develop the ability you feel like you can do whatever you put your mind into haha :!:

You don´t need more tips. Fleshlight is the shit.

Author:  slickezt [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 3:03 am ]
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I don't get the whole Fleshlight thing.. So you buy a fake pussy and practice with that and all of a sudden you are overcoming your PE, but when you were fucking your girlfriend who has a real pussy you were having problems? Unless the fleshlight felt better than screwing your gf I don't really see how that would help.

Not saying it didn't help or w.e but could u explain a little more please.. because I'm trying to work on my Johnson game also. I also do kegels and they help, but I constantly have to kind of take breaks and do them while fucking lol.. I just wana go relentlessly non stop like a boss.

appreciate it..

Author:  lolaskate [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 7:07 am ]
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I don't get the whole Fleshlight thing.. So you buy a fake pussy and practice with that and all of a sudden you are overcoming your PE, but when you were fucking your girlfriend who has a real pussy you were having problems? Unless the fleshlight felt better than screwing your gf I don't really see how that would help.

Not saying it didn't help or w.e but could u explain a little more please.. because I'm trying to work on my Johnson game also. I also do kegels and they help, but I constantly have to kind of take breaks and do them while fucking lol.. I just wana go relentlessly non stop like a boss.

appreciate it..
WHOOOOOOO KEGALS. AMAZAAAHHHHHHH

Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 10:46 am ]
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Unless the fleshlight felt better than screwing your gf I don't really see how that would help
im still waiting on the day on which man invents something that fucks better than a hot woman lol ... woman will die out as a specie

Author:  Consistence [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:08 am ]
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I don't get the whole Fleshlight thing.. So you buy a fake pussy and practice with that and all of a sudden you are overcoming your PE, but when you were fucking your girlfriend who has a real pussy you were having problems? Unless the fleshlight felt better than screwing your gf I don't really see how that would help.

Not saying it didn't help or w.e but could u explain a little more please.. because I'm trying to work on my Johnson game also. I also do kegels and they help, but I constantly have to kind of take breaks and do them while fucking lol.. I just wana go relentlessly non stop like a boss.

appreciate it..
First of all, fleshlight is not better than a real vagina. You only have physical stimulation from a fleshlight, but with a woman you also have physiological stimulation. That´s why girls prefer the real stuff instead of dildos and likewise why men prefer pussy instead of fleshlight/hand.

However, fleshlight also feels good and is more compareable to having sex than using your hand. You get used to the pumping mechanism, and if you pump like a machine for 20 minutes every time before you ejaculate your nervous system will get used to ejaculate after such long time! After all you can´t control when you ejaculate (or in some degree if you contract all your muscles) but you can change your bodys memory. That´s why many articles tells you that PE is caused by masturbation habits :)

Good luck !
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Unless the fleshlight felt better than screwing your gf I don't really see how that would help
im still waiting on the day on which man invents something that fucks better than a hot woman lol ... woman will die out as a specie
Never going to happen.
Why? See above.

Author:  slickezt [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 8:22 pm ]
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Ok i gotcha and just to clear up I wasn't saying that a fleshlight was better than a real vagina. I was just curious as to how it helped you get rid of PE.

But since you were talking about your masturbation habits, then you wouldn't necessarily need a fleshlight to change that would you?

Author:  Chief [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:59 am ]
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This is an ad for fleshlight lol

Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 10:27 am ]
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First of all, fleshlight is not better than a real vagina. You only have physical stimulation from a fleshlight, but with a woman you also have physiological stimulation. That´s why girls prefer the real stuff instead of dildos and likewise why men prefer pussy instead of fleshlight/hand.
tell her to hold the fleshlight while you are pounding it ... that seems the ideal solution !

Author:  CopernicanShift [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:58 pm ]
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always great to hear that someone is loving life! most people moan

Author:  juan47 [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 10:50 pm ]
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This is an ad for fleshlight lol
Lmao

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