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Lol,good to see that you at least manged to get your LTR bacc on tracc.

Well Im sought of in similar boat so I can relate.

I do get a rush out of banging girls who cheat along with me.

Somehow,a single girl doesnt excite me anymore.

I get where you're coming from.

LOL @ msn line.

I don't even know how you got to the level you are at now. I wouldn't mind it.

I have a problem, I think... an addiction to sex, but not just sex; since I have my girlfriend, but sex with other girls who are in a relationship. I can't help it.
I am on a relationship myself, and I love my girlfriend, been with her 16 months now. She completes me, with her I have fun, talk deep stuff all night, make love, eat, hug, cuddle, etc...
But, I can't help myself when seducing girls that have boyfriends, not just single girls, but when they have a boyfriend it adds so much excitement, my adrenaline rushes to the top. Its like a double rush, knowing that I am cheating, but they're cheating as well. Most of these encounters don't ever go past 3 or 5 times sex. Sometimes they just want to keep going for months, before I find it too risky.
I usually tell them about themselves, but sexually... I've been known to make them orgasm through msn by telling them where their G Spot is, they say their boyfriend has never make them felt like that, and that I didn't even touch them, and they ask to see me, which turns to wild sex, and by wild I mean it. Buttons flying across the hotel room, moans, screams...
And while I might find myself having sex with all these beautiful commited women, I don't feel any guilt when seeing my girlfriend, because I knows she's the only one (or at least my heart feels it) ... I make love to her, and have wild sex with others.
I've tried to stop this past weeks, but I can't. I am weak to temptations specially when it comes in the shape of a woman.
I even think I should visit those annonymous meetings and talk about it, or see a psychologist. I don't think its normal for me to be like this, and yet feel no damn guilt at all.
Sorry for rambling, I just needed to let this go off my chest, tell to someone that will not judge me or worst.
Thanks!

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try swing club game...

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try swing club game...

Probably won't work for him.

First off, He likes the thrill of cheating and luring a gal away from her BF. Swinging ain't cheating and 95% of the women in swing club will be there with their husbands and in the long shot that some gal would want him (see below), her husband will want to be there too for a 3way or will at least want to watch. My guess is that would let the air out of his tires instantly.

Also, most swingers HATE cheaters and look down on cheating more than mainstream society. Swinging is based on accepting that people aren't innately monogamous and couples will bring others into their bedroom for their mutual benifit and to do that openness and honesty with each other is the bedrock foundation. Cheating goes against everything that swinging is about.

The fact he would be there without his GF would be a huge strike against him right there. Swingers hate guys that want to fuck your girl but leave their's at home. And swingers also hate single guys that try to pick up wives behind their husbands backs.

All in all, cheaters do really poorly in the swinger world and actually flourish better in mainstream society where people fool around behind their partner's backs.

WARNING: Amateur psychology alert!

Normally I'd say have at it, these women are adults and the can make their own decisions, but your story is a bit more troubling.

I don't think this is about the sex, it's more of an ego or a power thing. The girls are more attractive to you BECAUSE they have a boyfriend. Somewhere in your head this is more about getting over on the guy than fucking the girl.

One big issue I see is the reckless behavior, continually fucking other guy's chicks can easily lead to the wrong end of a beating or even a gun. Not saying it's inevitable, but it's been known to happen. There's no upside to it other than the quick ego boost and the adrenaline rush. The other thing I see is you don't seem to give a shit about the all emotional pain you're causing by deliberately seeking out women in relationships. You're breaking people up for sport and you're lying and cheating on a woman you say you love while you're doing it. The fact you feel "no damn guilt at all" is troubling.

This is narcissistic if not borderline sociopathic behavior and will not end well for anyone involved. I would say, if you really want to change this behavior you need to seek out a good therapist.

Author:	thelenzel [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 1:36 am ]
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Author:	Baccarat [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 2:01 am ]
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The sad thing about mankind today is that life gives us so many things as compared to times before, and it becomes a struggle to find content with the important foundation blocks in our lives that matter to us. Sounds to me like you see life as a multiple choice question and your answer to that question is "D: All of the above" My answer to that is the obvious disconnect you have between what you want, and what is healthy for you to gain what you need. It honestly makes me sick when I hear people telling me they can't control themselves when us humans have such an amazing mind and brain, that can create and build, just as much as it can store and suppress. So the old saying goes "We as a society can make a man walk on the moon, and in doing so gives us the mindset of living without boundaries." It's bogus....If I were you I'd set goals for yourself exercising your ability to set boundaries. Like for your first day you'll try sticking to just drinking one type of drink for the day. Then make it a week. Then after that week move your goal to something different like only smoking 5 cigarettes throughout the day. Build your ability to set goals for yourself and make them progressively harder for yourself. Then after a few months work on your relationship (If it is still there) and give your girlfriend the relationship she deserves. A relationship anyone deserves. A relationship is not about how you feel, it's ALL about the other person. This isn't pick-up advice this is just life advice. You wouldn't blatantly hurt your family like this, when if you think about it...every relationship has the potential for you to build a family for yourself. So start caring about shit bro....or she'll wake up and leave you.

Author:	thelenzel [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 3:02 am ]
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Sounds easy, but thats all, it sounds only. I wish I could feel like you do, at least a tiny bit of remorse maybe so I could set my "goals" as you say. I've done all my life in a goal manner, professionally, I set a goal; reach it and start a new one. But thats about it. I'm reckless, and I don't think about other people. I appreciate your advice

Author:	PUA Kenny [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 3:14 am ]
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Lol,good to see that you at least manged to get your LTR bacc on tracc. Well Im sought of in similar boat so I can relate. I do get a rush out of banging girls who cheat along with me. Somehow,a single girl doesnt excite me anymore. I get where you're coming from.

Author:	thelenzel [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 3:26 am ]
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Quote: Lol,good to see that you at least manged to get your LTR bacc on tracc. Well Im sought of in similar boat so I can relate. I do get a rush out of banging girls who cheat along with me. Somehow,a single girl doesnt excite me anymore. I get where you're coming from. This is even better than annonymous meetings Thanks!! Let me guess, you are in a LTR as well ?? How would you describe your relationship with your girlfriend, compared to the other girls?

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Author:	Kobe Bryant [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:23 am ]
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LOL @ msn line. I don't even know how you got to the level you are at now. I wouldn't mind it.

Author:	N1ck9141 [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 11:29 am ]
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two words, SELF CONTROL... cheating on your girlfriend specially if u actually care bout her so much is never a good thing... and picking up women that have boyfriends is a power trip the first time any guy does it you will no theres nothing better...its like the women telling you yr better than my boyfriend cause im gunna sleep with you behind his back,....plus its a sence of achievement in yourself of wanting and GETTING what is meant to be off limits... so my first point get some self control or it will bite u in the arse one day and u may lose the girl you really care about, and secondly i will quote the pick up artist MYSTERY... Boyfriend..WHO CARES

Author:	thelenzel [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:17 pm ]
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Quote: LOL @ msn line. I don't even know how you got to the level you are at now. I wouldn't mind it. I'm sorry, you lost me.

Author:	DJ_Z [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 12:17 am ]
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Kobe was referring to how you can chat with a girl on msn and make her so horny she needs to bang you immediately... Dude self control. I'm sorry, but there not that many things that I believe are truly addictive. I believe its an ego thing, you like knowing girls will pick you over their boyfriends. Yep, its a mean thing to say, but it's my thought on the matter. Some people justify these claims of addiction because they release chemicals in your brain that make you feel good. You get it from sex, from fighting, from eating, many things. It's not easy to have control, but sometimes its necessary.

Author:	skills360 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 2:51 am ]
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Quote: I have a problem, I think... an addiction to sex, but not just sex; since I have my girlfriend, but sex with other girls who are in a relationship. I can't help it. I am on a relationship myself, and I love my girlfriend, been with her 16 months now. She completes me, with her I have fun, talk deep stuff all night, make love, eat, hug, cuddle, etc... But, I can't help myself when seducing girls that have boyfriends, not just single girls, but when they have a boyfriend it adds so much excitement, my adrenaline rushes to the top. Its like a double rush, knowing that I am cheating, but they're cheating as well. Most of these encounters don't ever go past 3 or 5 times sex. Sometimes they just want to keep going for months, before I find it too risky. I usually tell them about themselves, but sexually... I've been known to make them orgasm through msn by telling them where their G Spot is, they say their boyfriend has never make them felt like that, and that I didn't even touch them, and they ask to see me, which turns to wild sex, and by wild I mean it. Buttons flying across the hotel room, moans, screams... And while I might find myself having sex with all these beautiful commited women, I don't feel any guilt when seeing my girlfriend, because I knows she's the only one (or at least my heart feels it) ... I make love to her, and have wild sex with others. I've tried to stop this past weeks, but I can't. I am weak to temptations specially when it comes in the shape of a woman. I even think I should visit those annonymous meetings and talk about it, or see a psychologist. I don't think its normal for me to be like this, and yet feel no damn guilt at all. Sorry for rambling, I just needed to let this go off my chest, tell to someone that will not judge me or worst. Thanks! try swing club game...

Author:	here2play [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 8:18 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I have a problem, I think... an addiction to sex, but not just sex; since I have my girlfriend, but sex with other girls who are in a relationship. I can't help it. I am on a relationship myself, and I love my girlfriend, been with her 16 months now. She completes me, with her I have fun, talk deep stuff all night, make love, eat, hug, cuddle, etc... But, I can't help myself when seducing girls that have boyfriends, not just single girls, but when they have a boyfriend it adds so much excitement, my adrenaline rushes to the top. Its like a double rush, knowing that I am cheating, but they're cheating as well. Most of these encounters don't ever go past 3 or 5 times sex. Sometimes they just want to keep going for months, before I find it too risky. I usually tell them about themselves, but sexually... I've been known to make them orgasm through msn by telling them where their G Spot is, they say their boyfriend has never make them felt like that, and that I didn't even touch them, and they ask to see me, which turns to wild sex, and by wild I mean it. Buttons flying across the hotel room, moans, screams... And while I might find myself having sex with all these beautiful commited women, I don't feel any guilt when seeing my girlfriend, because I knows she's the only one (or at least my heart feels it) ... I make love to her, and have wild sex with others. I've tried to stop this past weeks, but I can't. I am weak to temptations specially when it comes in the shape of a woman. I even think I should visit those annonymous meetings and talk about it, or see a psychologist. I don't think its normal for me to be like this, and yet feel no damn guilt at all. Sorry for rambling, I just needed to let this go off my chest, tell to someone that will not judge me or worst. Thanks! try swing club game... Probably won't work for him. First off, He likes the thrill of cheating and luring a gal away from her BF. Swinging ain't cheating and 95% of the women in swing club will be there with their husbands and in the long shot that some gal would want him (see below), her husband will want to be there too for a 3way or will at least want to watch. My guess is that would let the air out of his tires instantly. Also, most swingers HATE cheaters and look down on cheating more than mainstream society. Swinging is based on accepting that people aren't innately monogamous and couples will bring others into their bedroom for their mutual benifit and to do that openness and honesty with each other is the bedrock foundation. Cheating goes against everything that swinging is about. The fact he would be there without his GF would be a huge strike against him right there. Swingers hate guys that want to fuck your girl but leave their's at home. And swingers also hate single guys that try to pick up wives behind their husbands backs. All in all, cheaters do really poorly in the swinger world and actually flourish better in mainstream society where people fool around behind their partner's backs.

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 4:55 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: I have a problem, I think... an addiction to sex, but not just sex; since I have my girlfriend, but sex with other girls who are in a relationship. I can't help it. I am on a relationship myself, and I love my girlfriend, been with her 16 months now. She completes me, with her I have fun, talk deep stuff all night, make love, eat, hug, cuddle, etc... But, I can't help myself when seducing girls that have boyfriends, not just single girls, but when they have a boyfriend it adds so much excitement, my adrenaline rushes to the top. Its like a double rush, knowing that I am cheating, but they're cheating as well. Most of these encounters don't ever go past 3 or 5 times sex. Sometimes they just want to keep going for months, before I find it too risky. I usually tell them about themselves, but sexually... I've been known to make them orgasm through msn by telling them where their G Spot is, they say their boyfriend has never make them felt like that, and that I didn't even touch them, and they ask to see me, which turns to wild sex, and by wild I mean it. Buttons flying across the hotel room, moans, screams... And while I might find myself having sex with all these beautiful commited women, I don't feel any guilt when seeing my girlfriend, because I knows she's the only one (or at least my heart feels it) ... I make love to her, and have wild sex with others. I've tried to stop this past weeks, but I can't. I am weak to temptations specially when it comes in the shape of a woman. I even think I should visit those annonymous meetings and talk about it, or see a psychologist. I don't think its normal for me to be like this, and yet feel no damn guilt at all. Sorry for rambling, I just needed to let this go off my chest, tell to someone that will not judge me or worst. Thanks! try swing club game... Probably won't work for him. First off, He likes the thrill of cheating and luring a gal away from her BF. Swinging ain't cheating and 95% of the women in swing club will be there with their husbands and in the long shot that some gal would want him (see below), her husband will want to be there too for a 3way or will at least want to watch. My guess is that would let the air out of his tires instantly. Also, most swingers HATE cheaters and look down on cheating more than mainstream society. Swinging is based on accepting that people aren't innately monogamous and couples will bring others into their bedroom for their mutual benifit and to do that openness and honesty with each other is the bedrock foundation. Cheating goes against everything that swinging is about. The fact he would be there without his GF would be a huge strike against him right there. Swingers hate guys that want to fuck your girl but leave their's at home. And swingers also hate single guys that try to pick up wives behind their husbands backs. All in all, cheaters do really poorly in the swinger world and actually flourish better in mainstream society where people fool around behind their partner's backs. Agree that is why i say Try...lol!

Author:	ProfessorX [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:14 pm ]
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WARNING: Amateur psychology alert! Normally I'd say have at it, these women are adults and the can make their own decisions, but your story is a bit more troubling. I don't think this is about the sex, it's more of an ego or a power thing. The girls are more attractive to you BECAUSE they have a boyfriend. Somewhere in your head this is more about getting over on the guy than fucking the girl. One big issue I see is the reckless behavior, continually fucking other guy's chicks can easily lead to the wrong end of a beating or even a gun. Not saying it's inevitable, but it's been known to happen. There's no upside to it other than the quick ego boost and the adrenaline rush. The other thing I see is you don't seem to give a shit about the all emotional pain you're causing by deliberately seeking out women in relationships. You're breaking people up for sport and you're lying and cheating on a woman you say you love while you're doing it. The fact you feel "no damn guilt at all" is troubling. This is narcissistic if not borderline sociopathic behavior and will not end well for anyone involved. I would say, if you really want to change this behavior you need to seek out a good therapist.

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:25 pm ]
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Quote: WARNING: Amateur psychology alert! Normally I'd say have at it, these women are adults and the can make their own decisions, but your story is a bit more troubling. I don't think this is about the sex, it's more of an ego or a power thing. The girls are more attractive to you BECAUSE they have a boyfriend. Somewhere in your head this is more about getting over on the guy than fucking the girl. One big issue I see is the reckless behavior, continually fucking other guy's chicks can easily lead to the wrong end of a beating or even a gun. Not saying it's inevitable, but it's been known to happen. There's no upside to it other than the quick ego boost and the adrenaline rush. The other thing I see is you don't seem to give a shit about the all emotional pain you're causing by deliberately seeking out women in relationships. You're breaking people up for sport and you're lying and cheating on a woman you say you love while you're doing it. The fact you feel "no damn guilt at all" is troubling. This is narcissistic if not borderline sociopathic behavior and will not end well for anyone involved. I would say, if you really want to change this behavior you need to seek out a good therapist. Professor x, that is really really good!!!!! As a matter of fact i had a friend like that, a natural, selfish as fuck btw... We are no longer friends... But good good..

Author:	Sharplin [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:54 pm ]
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Well on a positive note, it sounds like you're seeing an abundance of women. Right on. This comes down to the inherent nature of man. There is a prominent theory that man is by nature polygamous, and being with one woman leaves him feeling trapped and romantically bored. It goes back hundreds of thousands of years to when humans lived in clans much like prides of lions, where one ape-man would pimp up to a dozen ape-women. Man, has society changed... As for whether it's okay, it comes down to your values. Is the sexual excitement worth the potential guilt? Is your girlfriend sexually adventurous and perhaps down for a threesome?

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