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Author:  Shaken [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  relationship question.....where to go next?
Hey guys I have been involved in this forum for only about 3 weeks now and all the advice is really helping a lot.

Here's the situation: I have liked this girl (HB8) for a while now, and using methods from this forum I built up her attraction towards me the past few weeks. Last night I invited her as my date to a cocktail (I'm in a frat at school and they are just small parties where every brother brings a date).

One of her friends went with one of the other guys as well, and at the end of the night her friend takes me aside and says that the girl I like likes me and wants to hook up with me. So anyway, I leave the party with my date, her friend, and another friend. I walk with them back to their dorm (they all live in the same place) and this girl's friend completely helped me out and left me and the girl I like alone. Now at this point, I am not entirely able to recall everything that was said because I was pretty drunk, but basically we start talking and I tell her I like her (I know very AFC) and she says she likes me blah blah blah. The thing is, she just got out of a relationship like 2 months ago and the guy was a huge dickhead, so she said she doesn't really want a relationship at the moment.

Anyway, I give her a hug and say I had a great time with her (I was too pussy to make the move) and she said something about this weekend like telling me her schedule. So I leave her dorm, and after I had walked about 20 yards I hear her call my name and tell me to wait. She runs up to me and starts making out with me. I do not remember if I said anything after that or anything, I was just in shock (but it was awesome :)).

So, my problem is that I would like to be in a relationship with her, but I don't want to rush her. I have never been this far with a girl, and I do not know where to go from here. Like, am I suppossed to ask her out or something this weekend, or like have her come to a party and hook up with her again and then maybe talk about the situation?
Author:  Starbuck [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: relationship question.....where to go next?
Quote:
Hey guys I have been involved in this forum for only about 3 weeks now and all the advice is really helping a lot.

Here's the situation: I have liked this girl (HB8) for a while now, and using methods from this forum I built up her attraction towards me the past few weeks. Last night I invited her as my date to a cocktail (I'm in a frat at school and they are just small parties where every brother brings a date).

One of her friends went with one of the other guys as well, and at the end of the night her friend takes me aside and says that the girl I like likes me and wants to hook up with me. So anyway, I leave the party with my date, her friend, and another friend. I walk with them back to their dorm (they all live in the same place) and this girl's friend completely helped me out and left me and the girl I like alone. Now at this point, I am not entirely able to recall everything that was said because I was pretty drunk, but basically we start talking and I tell her I like her (I know very AFC) and she says she likes me blah blah blah. The thing is, she just got out of a relationship like 2 months ago and the guy was a huge dickhead, so she said she doesn't really want a relationship at the moment.

Anyway, I give her a hug and say I had a great time with her (I was too pussy to make the move) and she said something about this weekend like telling me her schedule. So I leave her dorm, and after I had walked about 20 yards I hear her call my name and tell me to wait. She runs up to me and starts making out with me. I do not remember if I said anything after that or anything, I was just in shock (but it was awesome :)).

So, my problem is that I would like to be in a relationship with her, but I don't want to rush her. I have never been this far with a girl, and I do not know where to go from here. Like, am I suppossed to ask her out or something this weekend, or like have her come to a party and hook up with her again and then maybe talk about the situation?
What are you crazy or something?:lol: Just kidding.

Go for it.

No need to talk about it... Take her out (inexpensively), have fun, cut up, ask her about herself, etc.. make out with her, buy her a drink or two if applicable, then find a nice secluded place to take it from there. You'll know what to do.

If you hesitate to much you might blow her off. If you talk too much about it she might lose respect for you or think you're neurotic or something.

Just do it and have fun. She either goes along or she stops you at some point along the way. No problem.
Author:  Raykast [ Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:18 am ]
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Well she already second guessed her own hesitation once by calling you back to the make out. If you really want a relationship this I'll be pretty easy, just don't come off pushy, build up comfort, some attraction and your in. Just don't get in to the habit of spending money on her. No more then $30 on a date, ever.
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