Dooooooooooooo it.
Im in the same situation, but this gf is great!
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| Author: | .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | How Ethical is it if you have a girlfriend? |
I have a girlfriend--she was my first official "pick up." She's great and all, but I really want to be able to use my skills on other girls. Do you guys think it's unethical to pickup women while I'm going out with a girl?? |
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| Author: | Dash (R) [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:33 am ] |
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Dooooooooooooo it. Im in the same situation, but this gf is great! |
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| Author: | LuckyMan [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:38 am ] |
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ya, i do that to. |
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| Author: | horseradish [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:42 am ] |
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I think its completely unethical for you to have a girlfriend in the first place....  maye you can use hypnosis to let her think its ok for you to see other girls. Maybe stick a few lesbian fantasies in there too. |
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| Author: | LuckyMan [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:44 am ] |
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i wouldn't recommend hypnosis, but i did convince my gf to let me have other gf's. and her best friend is bisexual, which is a +. lol. |
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| Author: | davidshankle [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 4:08 am ] |
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I mean there are ways to remain her boyfriend and see either girls..... be honest about it, and if she has a problem with it, then she is probably too jealous for you to deal with right now. Ideally, they would take it better if you establish that from the beginning.... but you can still pull it off. If not, then her loss. |
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| Author: | .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:36 am ] |
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Thanks for the responses, guys. I was thinking the same thing; I will just play it cool for now, but I don't think she'll care. David, your post made a lot of sense, man--thanks for the advice  .Does anyone else in here have a girlfriend, or has the same problem? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 3:31 pm ] |
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I don't have a g/f, I have a wife, and she's cool with it. Mainly because I'm working to bring other women into our bedroom. And, at the same time, I'm working to improve my skills so that I can help other AFC's in my city too. My wife has friends/coworkers that need help picking up women and she refers them to me, so I can help them too. So, I say the g/f thing doesn't matter, as long as she's cool with it too. If she doesn't know then I figure you're doing it behind her back, which isn't cool. |
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| Author: | The Bachelor's Code [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 7:15 pm ] |
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I think the whole idea is not to just have a ton of one night stands...it's to have a bunch of gf's that you can call anytime. you want these girl to fall in love with you, so i say definately keep it going! |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 7:41 pm ] |
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You know, I definitely agree with that. That's our goal, my wife and I, is to find a couple of girls that will be regulars for us. |
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| Author: | .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:18 pm ] |
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What if she says that she doens't want me doing it? I know that the guy is supposed to take charge, but I can't just ignore her if she says no; I need to make sure she's happy. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:20 pm ] |
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Then it comes down to how serious is your relationship with her? Can you move on and find the type of girl that you REALLY want? |
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| Author: | .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:21 pm ] |
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Sorry, I'm not really understanding what you're saying; can you please rephrase that? |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:21 pm ] |
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Then you can either be a cheater and do it behind her back, or you can tell her that its over, or that you want to step the relationship back a bit and make it more casual, because you are interested in seeing other people as well. Don't forget that by doing that, you are pretty much giving her the right to see other people as well though. |
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| Author: | .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:24 pm ] |
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That's very true--well it seems like either way, I'm stuck; it's a lose-lose situation. If I don't stop, I'll lose my girlfriend. If I do stop, I'll lose my title as "P.U.A." LAME. |
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