PUA Forum :: It's back, it's bigger, it's.......one-itis

Just thought I'd share this little tidbit from my life with you guys, just to prove I have horrible luck.

For the past year I have had one-itis. I like her, she likes me, we get on great, but we live too far away from each other.
When I first read about one-itis I thought, awesome, at least my one-itis is so far away it can't hurt me. This is good because every time I talk to her I regress 6 years mentally, to before I'd even kissed a girl.
She never minded of course because we had rock-solid attraction/rapport.

BUT(And here's where I prove that fate is a mean sonuvabitch) she's now coming to college in my hometown...with her boyfriend of nearly a year.

I know what you're gonna say...
GAME HER! BOYFRIEND DESTROYER!
Except, she really does make me regress to the point where I can't even think about game around her. Even if I could it'd make me feel dirty all over.

This is not a call for advice, this is something I just had to get off my chest.
Thanks guys.

Author:	negsta [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 10:30 am ]
Post subject:	It's back, it's bigger, it's.......one-itis
Just thought I'd share this little tidbit from my life with you guys, just to prove I have horrible luck. For the past year I have had one-itis. I like her, she likes me, we get on great, but we live too far away from each other. When I first read about one-itis I thought, awesome, at least my one-itis is so far away it can't hurt me. This is good because every time I talk to her I regress 6 years mentally, to before I'd even kissed a girl. She never minded of course because we had rock-solid attraction/rapport. BUT(And here's where I prove that fate is a mean sonuvabitch) she's now coming to college in my hometown...with her boyfriend of nearly a year. I know what you're gonna say... GAME HER! BOYFRIEND DESTROYER! Except, she really does make me regress to the point where I can't even think about game around her. Even if I could it'd make me feel dirty all over. This is not a call for advice, this is something I just had to get off my chest. Thanks guys.

Author:	Rookie [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 11:34 am ]
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I had a similar thing happen to me a couple of weeks ago. I did the only polite thing, I went over and greeted them (and the group of people they were sitting with). I tried to textbook it, and told them I could only stay a second b/c I had some friends I was going to hook up with. While ignoring her I told the group a lame joke and then went on. Later on I walked passed the group again, and proceeded to sit down. I was a little buzzed, but so were they. I ignored my one-itis completely and focused on being interesting and outgoing towards the rest of the group. Long story short, I worked her boyfriend a lot (though I never managed to out-alpha him). He ended up ignoring her completely (as I did) and laughed at my stupid jokes. The late one-itis striving for me and the boyfriends attention unsuccessfully. After a while I stood up, and told the group it was nice meeting them but I had to go. This happened at a night on the town though, so it made it a lot easier. The bf didn´t know much about me and the girlfriends history (mainly because there wasn´t a lot to know), and actually ended up buying me a beer. I doubt it had a lot of effect on my late one-itis, but it was fun anyway. My regrets are not being able to out-alpha him, and I should have negged her more and I should have worked the others on the table more.

Author:	BlackBull [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: It's back, it's bigger, it's.......one-itis
Quote: Just thought I'd share this little tidbit from my life with you guys, just to prove I have horrible luck. For the past year I have had one-itis. I like her, she likes me, we get on great, but we live too far away from each other. When I first read about one-itis I thought, awesome, at least my one-itis is so far away it can't hurt me. This is good because every time I talk to her I regress 6 years mentally, to before I'd even kissed a girl. She never minded of course because we had rock-solid attraction/rapport. BUT(And here's where I prove that fate is a mean sonuvabitch) she's now coming to college in my hometown...with her boyfriend of nearly a year. I know what you're gonna say... GAME HER! BOYFRIEND DESTROYER! Except, she really does make me regress to the point where I can't even think about game around her. Even if I could it'd make me feel dirty all over. This is not a call for advice, this is something I just had to get off my chest. Thanks guys. Oof.That's some ironic shit. You're going to have one hell of a semester. xD. See what happens dude.Still talk to her.If she seems happy with him,it's all good.Let em be.If she isn't happy,then do what you're called to do. At ease.

Author:	Pickitup [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:36 pm ]
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You will have sex with her...

Author:	Tao108 [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 10:38 pm ]
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Quote: You will have sex with her... Wow... THAT'S hard.

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