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Author:  jonnyJ [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  sarging my Ex with her new Bf
Hi guys, need some input if you don't mind.

I was seeing this girl for about 4 months, and we broke up a couple of months ago. (she broke it off because she felt we were "going in different directions") I've yet to see her since, but there's a party next sat which we're both going to.

She's started seeing a guy i know a couple of weeks ago, he'll be there too but i still intend to sarge the shit out of her. Any tips on how to go about this? Any ideas on how to get past the new bf issue?

I know he's a bit younger than she is, and she will have an issue with this. This could be a good way to get past him, any ideas on what to say to play on this insecurity much appreciatted.

The 3 boyfriend destroyer links on seductiontuition seem quite good. but any more you know of would be good, i could really do with some ways to exploit the age issue she's got.

Thanks in advance
Author:  North [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 2:36 pm ]
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You know, that sounds tricky. If you try to AMOG her new bf using his age, for example, you'll actually be sounding like a jealous jerk and DLV yourself.

Don't sarge her. Sarge her new boyfriend instead. Be friendly to the guy, and work your way to have him trust you (remember, you still ARE the previous boyfriend). Enjoy yourself. Neglect her. No hard negs or anything, be friendly to her, but neglect her. Let her see you having fun and not giving a shit about her.

Whatever you do, do not sarge her directly, ESPECIALLY if she starts flirting you. If she does, it will be a test. Be smarter than her.

As a bonus, if your friends circle sees how well you handle the break-up, you'll gain social proof. Very important 8)
Author:  jonnyJ [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 2:50 pm ]
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I wasn't thinking about AMOGing him about age really because, as you say i'll come across as a jealous jerk. I was more thinking about making the odd little comment about myself, to point out that i'm the right age and he's too young. It's a get together of a load of guys who i was at school with, so they're all my (and her) age, except him, he's 4 years younger (she's almost 27, he's 23). I was thinking about perhaps making some comments to the group about how everything we're all doing now seems so grown up and old. If i play it right i might even get him to start poking fun at how old we (and she) all are. Either way it might plant the seed in her mind about it.

What you rekon?
Author:  North [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 2:58 pm ]
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The age jokes ARE the same as AMOGing him about the age. Don't think that would help. Sure, if you're not attacking him, you won't sound like a jerk, but it won't help much on it's own.

Instead of having her wonder what could be wrong about him, have her thinking about your own qualities. DHV is key.
Author:  jonnyJ [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 3:19 pm ]
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I think you're right about ignoring her a bit and befriending him (he's the little bro of one of my mates). It would DHV me to the group, and her. With any luck he might start being a bit of a dick about it and DLV himself.

Any oother tips?
Author:  Valmont [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 6:33 pm ]
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This new bloke will probably either be very nervous about you or he will Alpha it up big time to show he is the new man in your ex's life and isn't backing down. If he's smart he will DHV for his own social proof at this party. Just make sure he doesn't have control of the set without looking like you want your ex back; and be prepared for his AMOGing. I would also refrain from getting wasted.
Author:  jonnyJ [ Sat Aug 18, 2007 7:29 pm ]
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The thing i have in my favor is that i've pretty much arranged the party so am calling the shots with it a bit, putting me high up the ladder. I won't be getting wasted thats for sure. I'm thinking that he could well be going to AMOG it big time, hopefully he'll come off looking like a dick.
Author:  skandalous [ Sun Aug 19, 2007 3:29 pm ]
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johnny, if your ex sees you socializing with other girls at the party and opening sets then that will definitely trigger something inside her.

definitely don't ignore your ex though, that will just give her power by thinking you still care.

i think going up to her and saying hi, how are you? blah blah is fine. if it turns into a small conversation and shes in the middle of talking say something along the lines of, "listen hun i got to go but we should continue this later, have fun!"

don't act like you don't have anything better to do at this party.

also I'm not sure how happy your ex was with you but usually when you hang out with an ex after a while and she was reasonably happy with you she starts doubting her decision. so try to show her the side of you she was happy with and try to cut out the things she didn't like about you.

and i don't think playing on her boyfriends age is a bad thing.
it will hurt this kids ego badly and back him into a corner.
just don't over do it cause then you will just look like an a$$.

I think this opportunity you have is a lot more exciting then just sarging some random you don't know.

If you use your techniques tactfully and at the right times i think you have a good chance of making something happen at this party.
Author:  Riceforlife [ Mon Aug 20, 2007 12:42 am ]
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haha i am in a similiar situation. I would befriend the boyfriend/ ignore the ex but in a friendly way
Author:  the_Q [ Mon Aug 20, 2007 2:39 am ]
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Personally I disapprove of sarging girls that are HONESTLY taken.. Everyone at some point has had a girl that cheats on you and the ONLY way to stop that is for Guys as a WHOLE to STOP not caring about if she is involved or not. I know that sounds gay but seriously if a chick says she has a boyfriend and HONESTLY does MOST guys will CONTINUE to sarge for a ONS or a Steal... I PERSONALLY think this is the LOWEST form of game. Go be original respect the relationship because someone was BRAVE enough to start that relationship out of a sarge so WHY not do the same....

basically why try and make sales off someone elses customer list when you have the ability and the CHALLENGE of going and creating YOUR OWN customers...

But im not your Mother or Father so what you do is what you do but Personally The Q respects the relationship IF IT IS GENUINE!


---The Q
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