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| Author: | Poise_and_Class [ Fri Aug 17, 2007 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Ever wonder why you are not getting better? Read this |
In order to solve your problems in the game, you need these 3 indispensable qualities: Focus, time(commitment) and discipline. I'll further explain this below. Notice this applies to other areas of your life as well. 1. Focus- If you try to handle all your problems at once, most probably you can't even solve one of it. Recently I came across a quote that explains this theory: "If you chase 2 rabbits, both WILL escape." So let's say if you try to improve on 5 areas which you are weak at all at once (be it confidence, body language, etc), that'll be equivalent to chasing 5 rabbits at the same time, and you'll end up wondering why you are not getting any results. Most people make the mistake of absorbing too much information and then try to handle everything at once. In the end, they realise that there's no significant improvement. I posted a website on eye contact some time ago, and my main FOCUS was to improve on it before anything else because I was really bad at it last time. Now I am able to maintain eye contact with anyone, gazing into the eyes of a woman is no longer an issue, when I am looking at a hot babe I don't look away when she turns to look at me. With my EC fixed, I can focus on something else without worrying about it. Sovle a problem first before you move on to the next. 2. Time(commitment)- Don't expect to be a babe magnet instantly after learning all the materials. You may have all the knowledge, but becoming the lady killer you have in mind is much trickier than you think. For example, you may have some idea on how to be as charming and confident as James Bond. However, to reach that degree of charm and confident is extremely difficult. Applying the stuff you know and master them requires alot of time and effort. Even if you are a fast learner, you need numerous small success before you reach your goal. This is where point no. 3 comes in. 3. Discipline- To achieve any major success, discipline is a MUST. Without it, you can never finish what you start off with. For me, I did a time table to keep track of my training, improvements and mistakes. I constantly keep track of my progress. Let improvements encourage you, no matter how small they are. Let mistakes be learning lessons. You have to take many small steps to advance to bigger ones, which you'll have to leap over to obtain your goal. Hope this post is helpful. I wasted alot of time on this and my eyes are really tired now. I want to hear comments from you guys. Any suggestion, constructive criticism and advice is welcome. |
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