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| Author: | zaid [ Thu Jul 26, 2007 6:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | she gave me her number but doesnt answer.IMPORTANT |
check out my story and see what you think. I was in this college for one year, two semesters to be precise. Only last semester i didnt attend, which would have been my third consecutive. So i decided to visit the campus a few weeks ago during the summer coarse. Iv'e been out of touch with girls for a while now and its killing me so i thought i'd find myself a target. During my visitation to the college i saw a girl that i remember seeing Very often when i was attending. I used to think she was cute so i thought, why not her? so i just got ready to make a move when i noticed she was already far away from me and she was walking fast towards the exit of the college, so i thought the only way i could catch up would be to sprint infront of everyone, by the time id catch up with her id be panting like fuck. i thought that idea was crap so i found out what class she had and thought i'd try again the next day. But this time i'd be prepared. So the next day i went to the college and sat in the most strategic position i could find so that on her way to class id be 100 percent sure of seeing her from a distance, and that she'd be walking towards me. This way giving me time to fix myself up and make a nice approach. Oh yeah very important, I WAS STONED AS FUCK and hadn't slept. Anyway, as i had planned, i saw her coming from a distance, only she was with a guy. I dont mind approaching women in groups or whatever but i hate approaching 1 girl and 1 guy, so basically i couldnt do shit and she went to class. So i thought i'd wait a while. 15 mins later she suddenly appears and sits in the bench opposite to me, alone. I take this as a gift from god and appproach her. So i walked up to her and said "Hi, do you mind if i sit down?". She looked around as if her mind couldnt quite process what was happening. she didnt hear me in her lost confusion and asked me what i had just said. so i told her again."do u mind if i sit down". She then pointed next to her and said "here" almost as if this was the last thing she ever expected to happen. I cant give hard evidence that she was suprised in a good way but i know it wasn't a bad way. Anyway, she said " Yeah, sure", so i sat down. I was just settling in to my new seat when she asked me what my name was. i told her, then asked for hers. Her name was kate. She looked as if she was trying to act as if the whole approach was something normal to her, but inside it wasn't. I then told her "kate, i hope you dont mind me saying that i think your'e very attractive" She gave away a smile but i felt like she was trying to hold it back. She then asked me a series of questions."how old are you" "what highschool were you in" "Are u still in college this college". honestly, i was really tired and stoned and didnt want to get into a certain conversation so after every question i asked her the same. i know this isnt the smoothest way but i was dead and she kept coming up with questions anyway. When she asked me if i was still in college i told her i was gonna change cos it was boring here. that might not have been the best thing to say, might have sent negative vibes, but i was high and only focused on giving her my number. She asked me what i was doing in the college seeing as i wasnt enrolled for summer. i didnt want to say it was for her so i said i was waiting for my friend, she asked me who? i told her who and she said "oh, is he your friend" almost as if he was her friend too . blablablabla i wanted to get it over with so i told her that i should get going. Before i got up i looked at her and asked her if she would like to get to know eachother. She said yes so i suggested giving her my number and she accepted. She left me a missed call so i could save her number. So i told her "it was nice meeting you Kate, bye" and left. whilest i was leaving i saw the friend i told her i was waiting for accidently sitting about 50 yards way. well, actually he saw me and called me over. i told him to meet me in the car cos i was going to leave. When we were sitting in the car the girl i just talked to walked by. i was talking to him and acted as though i didnt notice her but my friend for some spastic reason stared at her in a fucked up way(his stares sometimes look scary) i dont know if she saw him but i hope she didnt. i thought seeing as she gave me her number when she didnt have to it was certain. i also took into account that seeing as she gave me hers maybe i should call. perhaps it wasnt, perhaps she wanted to give me the chance to call and not call, i think alot. But in the end i called her the next day and her phone was off. i tried the next day it wass off too so i sent her a message saying"hi kate, i called but ur phone was off, dont keep me waiting too long". now that i think about it,that makes me sound desperate. But i didnt mean it in a desperate way so it didnt cross my mind at the time. the point is she never called back. its been three weeks. I waited for the first one then realised it wasnt coming. Another thing, turned out she had a friend with the exact same name as my friend i said i was waiting for. She probably confused them and thougth i was a liar. Thats my story. I have never talked to or read about pick up artists or how to get women, but ive always been interested. iv'e had girls approach me alot before and alot of girls say im cute, my body is fit. im a modest person but i have to tell you this so that u can know me better. I would appreciate anybodies opinions on what went wrong if not manythings. These are some i thought of. Not interested. My friends evil stare. she thought i lied about knowing her friend. Why didnt i approach earlirer why didnt i take the time to get to know her in college. which actually i would have done if it wasnt the last day and id had to wait till next semester, IF i stayed in that college. then there's the conversation in general the compliment the message If it was a girl in a club or anywhere else i wouldnt care if she called or not but the girl was in college with me (and she gave me her number)and i never in my life approached a girl that was in the same school or college as i. i used to find ways for them to come to me. Im good at that, thats my style since i was a kid. But due to lack of time and great hornyness i rushed in. So now i feel like shit cos this is the first time i approach in school history, and i failed. I'll greatly appreciate helping me find out what i did wrong. But if anyone can tell me a foolproof plan how i can still get her, ill respect them as a king should be respected. if i have to wait for next semester ill look for some girls in the time being and when next semester comes ill be ready.whatever the plan is, i'll do it, and if the art of picking up is real, it can be done. |
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| Author: | sundayraver [ Thu Jul 26, 2007 10:07 am ] |
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Im not the greatest PUA but heres a few things i noticed 1. You were stoned - which f.cks you up. 2. You were seeking her permission to sit with her TWICE! 3. You never lead the convo, she led with boring common Q's 4. you got her no. anmd left, you should have chatted a bit more after 5. the compliment probably made her feel uncomfertable Were there any awkward silences? Usually when a girl leads a convo its becuase the guy isnt saying anything! |
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