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| Author: | Korruptx [ Mon May 18, 2009 5:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Question thats bugging me |
Hey guys, finally mastered a lot of my inner game issues through affirmations which feels so good, BUT I have a problem I'm not sure how to solve. Basically, I've cut out my routines and negs from my game completely, so I'm just basically running on pure confidence, teasing a bit still and stuff, but I keep thinking to myself that when I just run on inner game I am being the 'nice guy'.. How do you avoid being THAT guy when your just having normal rapport. Should I get out of my comfort zone and start escalation earlier? Not sure what to do when it comes to inner game, I guess its because I have been using routines and techniques for so long it feels weird to be having rapport building convos with girls again. My last question is, and this is a tough one for me.. I have been listening to Cory Skyy and Brent Smith (naturals) and they stress in parts of their audio that remaining "Unaffected" is a very big attraction builder, as in, not caring about what others think of you / the outcome of interactions. I dont get HOW you can just litteraly STOP caring =/ Thanks. |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Mon May 18, 2009 5:33 pm ] |
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I heard an interview with Cajun recently he said he is unaffected because he has seen everything before. Which seems pretty logical, if you approach lots of women they will start to repeat themselves. For example I frequently get called gay, or anorexic or some other pithy gem from mother hens. So I used to be like oh shit maybe I am giving off gay vibes, now I know I am so fuck it. I give them some crappy response (real rinse and repeat job) and they leave. As for worrying about being a nice guy spice things up by adding overt sexuality to your game and try to escalate as quickly as possible, at the moment I am aiming to K-close consistently in under 3 minutes. And if you are still feeling like a nice guy look up douche or asshole game on the forum. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Mon May 18, 2009 9:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question thats bugging me |
Quote: Hey guys, finally mastered a lot of my inner game issues through affirmations which feels so good, BUT I have a problem I'm not sure how to solve.
Basically, I've cut out my routines and negs from my game completely, so I'm just basically running on pure confidence, teasing a bit still and stuff, but I keep thinking to myself that when I just run on inner game I am being the 'nice guy'.. How do you avoid being THAT guy when your just having normal rapport. Should I get out of my comfort zone and start escalation earlier? Not sure what to do when it comes to inner game, I guess its because I have been using routines and techniques for so long it feels weird to be having rapport building convos with girls again. My last question is, and this is a tough one for me.. I have been listening to Cory Skyy and Brent Smith (naturals) and they stress in parts of their audio that remaining "Unaffected" is a very big attraction builder, as in, not caring about what others think of you / the outcome of interactions. I dont get HOW you can just litteraly STOP caring =/ Thanks. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy. I want to have that stated. But there's a limit to everything. You won't have someone walk all over you because that's not part of your reality. Use common sense. To stay out of that friend zone start escalating earlier and stay in a flirty vibe. Being unaffected mean trusting in who you are, what you are and what your beliefs are. So what might help is writing your beliefs down. Like there are no slutty women only women that know what they want is one thing I 100% believe in. And is something I find attractive. But what you want to go after to stay unaffected is indifference. The way is to get indifference is by approaching so many sets that at one point it just clicks in your mind that you don't even care wether a set is going good or is going terribly. Besides every set that you open should be of self-amusement, if you're having fun others will aswell, as having fun is contagious. hope it helps -Jav |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Mon May 18, 2009 9:21 pm ] |
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There's a lot to be said here, but I always end up writing essays. Instead I'm just going to give you a few of my favourite inner game techniques and exercises. 1. The ass-slapping run. Credit to my wing Biggi for inventing this crazy idea. Basically you start (do it with a mate if you can) in one place, and agree a finishing point, and a point where you stop slapping asses. So you run through this crowded area you have chosen, and slap as many girls' asses as you can. Also slap guys' asses because at some points you will run out of girls. At others you won't even realise the difference (trust me, it flies by). Be sure to keep running and try and stick together otherwise one of you will get the others' left overs. This exercise will give you a blast, more confidence, a good feel for girls' asses, and more 'GO-FOR-IT' attitude. 2. Comic openers. Open with the stupidest shit in the world. I think Neil Strauss has one like this about pretending you're an alien. Once you've failed the worst possible, you're cool with failure and it's not an issue => more confidence. I picked up a daties for dummies book a while back in a Starbucks which is in a book shop near where I live. I went up to the lone wolf on the table and open with "Ermm....uh....um...you......have. Really...Beautiful......eyes" (Pretending to be all nervous and inept). She responded playfully and actually returned the compliment haha...interestingly, she was bitchy the rest of the set. 3. GM style. Try some GM style game. Also slightly separately (but related), try being TOTALLY honest with a girl. Today I was with this girl in the library and I was just like, "Lucy, you've actually got pretty big tits, I didn't realise." And just stared at them. 4. Take up a hobby/sport that involves pain or danger. I box and also started climbing buildings recently (as an extension from parkour). When you're on top of a church steeple hanging onto the cross for dear life, trust me, once you're on the ground, you feel like you can conquer ANYTHING. 5. Stop relying on others for your self-esteem. When people give me compliments, I realised that I take it the same as insults. I just don't give a shit. I am me and I chillout. The other day I dressed like a chimney sweeper for no reason. Because I felt like it. My mates were like wtf, but they're all cool with it because I am cool with it. BE COOL WITH YOURSELF. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Mon May 18, 2009 10:15 pm ] |
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Also, by far the best exercise I personally have ever heard of for inner game is something I saw on the Annihilation method by Hypnotica and/or Steve P - Drive to a different town, and walk around with a dildo strapped to your forehead. Then approach girls. You can also do it with a finger up your nose. I have yet to do this, but will do it in a few weeks when I have more time. It depends what you want for yourself. I and my like-minded buddies wanted to take inner game to the ultimate level. It's just a breath of fresh air. It's like you can do ANYHTING THE FUCK YOU WANT. APCMPEIAJ_£(J"KAQ)DKQ)"KCQ)+========================================kkkkkkfa0000000000000000000000 |
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