Mirage – something illusory, without substance or reality, unattainable
A Beautiful woman sitting alone in a busy community lounge
Your thoughts as you first lay eyes on her
“I’ll talk to her in minute, let me think of something clever to say, no wait that opener won’t work ----diving deeper in your mind ------She’s hotter than the normal 6’s I usually settle on, she’ll still be there after I purchase my bagel and coffee from the shop, maybe I’m not her type, maybe she’s not my type, her personality may not be cool, what if she thinks I’m ugly, too skinny, what if people see me talking to her, what if people see me getting rejected I’ll be embarrassed...*breath* i can do this, Hold on let me bend down and tie my shoe”…. Ok I’m ready….
(You look Up She’s Gone)
You will never see her again this lifetime, she'll never know you, you'll never know her. That moment with her sitting there will never return ~The Mirage you created
Situations change. Hesitation creates more obstacles such as: now her mood and focus has changed she’s not as open to your approach as she would have been 3mins ago, she’s on her cell phone now, another man has noticed her too now he’s talking to her and she’s enjoying his company, her girlfriend/s have come into play, or she leaves her current position
The world is in motion. Nothing comes to those who stand and wait.