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Author:  SierraPapa [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:31 pm ]
Post subject:  How to react when she pulls a random act/tactical?

Alright lads!

A little opinion needed,

Just in the scenario, theres this girl and you both like each other, you've been seeing each other and she texts you every day. Now one day she decides she isn't going to text... so i have two choices.. play her at her own game or show her that yes i can make an effort too, i chose to make the effort, but say she doesn't reply and tries to play a tactical move on me to see how i react, i'm guessing the best way to be is to not react at all, and it follows the be mean keep them keen?

Whats your thoughts?

Cheers lads,
Sierra

Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:54 pm ]
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She texts you everyday and then one day she don't text you at all and you
two DO like each other???

Well, she might have been busy that day or she just wants to see if you are
willing to put in a little effort in order to get in touch with her.

If you do not show that you are a little interested in her, then she will flee.

Author:  noresiduals [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:50 pm ]
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yeah if she is interested in you she prolly just got some retarded advice from her friends to ignore you to see if you come looking for her. i'd show up at her house.

Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 7:23 pm ]
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Don't read too much into it.
If she doesn't answer, she may be out of credit on her cell, she may have other reasons, like maybe her dog ate the cellphone, maybe she dropped it in the toilet, whatever.

The key is mostly to not nag her.
Don't come off as needy, because regardless how she feels now, if you start sending her 3-4 messages without her replying, you lose.

If she doesn't respond, you let her hang, and go out play with other people, then when she responds, wait a few minutes before answering her, and take it from there.

If she gets too much attention from you, the value of your attention will drop because she seems to have so much of it.

The whole thing about abundance at work here.

When you have abundant of something. It's not valuable to you anymore.

People who have tons of gold may decide to use it for shingles on the roof, or something, even though to others it's :shock:...Gold!. To that person it's just meh.... gold, whatever.


Don't fall for the temptation of trying to read her mind, and "know" why she does or doesn't do something.
You never will know exactly what her reasons are, so it's not useful to believe anything that may become an obstacle or a hindrance to your progress or your will and ability to push forward.

Author:  Finchy [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:52 pm ]
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Ok my first reply I know, but I'm not altogether an AFC
Since you and her have already established a mutual interest, ignoring her altogether might be the start of a downward spiral.
That being said, sending the usual flirtatious message might look like you're chasing her.
I'd send a neg telling her how you were laughing about something that she did that was embarrassing for her but that you thought was cute. Or something else that she did that you thought was a pretty blond moment but cute anyway.
If she was ignoring you to see what you'd do she'll probably get the impression you didn't even notice.
From there I'd leave it up to her to reply, you haven't been acting weird or chasing her and if your negs dont a least get her to look for a bit of attention then i think its fair to say the spark has died.

Finchy!

Author:  daggaz [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:05 pm ]
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First, you are reading way too much into it. There could be a thousand reasons why she didnt respond or didnt text you first or whatever. I wouldnt sweat it at all. Depending on the girl/relationship, I would probably text again the next day, either CF or nice, to find out what happened. If still no answer, dont text again until she answers you, for at least a couple days.

Second, you need to flipping escalate, escalate, escalate. If you are texting every day, why arent you meeting up as well? Why arent you kinoing her, kissing on her, stuffing her taco, etc?? Girls will get bored if it doesnt go anywhere, and suddenly some other guy will come in and escalate things and she will be like, "Oooh! Shiny and new!" and bam you've just burnt all those months being an AFC chode not making your moves.

But really, most likely she dropped her phone in the toilet. Or something equally as retarded. Dont sweat it until you know better.

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