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| Author: | sfpsb10 [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:06 am ] |
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kk, two things a remember reading " if u cant talk u cant run game" and "the dance floor is a trap" im at this really noisey club, hot chicks every where SPAM is great soo im dancin, see a group of hotties sitting alone, open the set, but it was loud, i was getting frustrated so i left, opened a few more sets, did my opener and just bounced to the dance floor, didnt even say "nice meeting you" wat i was figuring was that i would open to show confidence then hope they would find me pon the dance floor and we could dance. i had fun, it was my 1st night at a club, (im way underage) no puss tho, but watever, i spoke to sum non PUA friends tehy told me just dance and either a chick will start dancing with u, or u can dance near a chick n see if she dances back, soo how would u guys do it, i kno at a pua forum we're all about running game but how do u guys do it in a loud club, and please no1 say "find a quiet place" im specifically talking bout noisiness |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:08 am ] |
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I don't dance, I speak loudly they lean in and hear me. |
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| Author: | Different Cloud [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 11:04 am ] |
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I'm actually having this problem at the moment myself, All clubs and pre-club pubs are pretty loud and it's very frustrating. For this reason itself Indirect Game is harder. |
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| Author: | R.G. [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 1:07 pm ] |
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Quote: " if u cant talk u cant run game"
That's not necessarily true:close-on-bus-without-saying-a-word-in-5 ... 34621.html Remember 93% of communication has nothing to do with the words you speak. It is body language and tone of voice. Quote: "the dance floor is a trap"
I can see where people are coming from saying this, but clearly it isn't as many PUA's pull and close from the dance floor. I think you just have to make the distinction between girls going out to dance, tease boys and have fun than actually pulling from the dance floor. You have to change their mindset and you do that through gaming.The best thing about clubs is that kino is so easy DUE to the loud noise - use it to your advantage. I'm always putting my arm around the girls, grabbing their shoulders, and my special move which is, in order to tell them something in their ear, you signal for them to move closer to you (so they move in first), then whisper something in their ear only you press your face right up to theirs by brushing cheeks. This works because you keep your mouth well away from theirs (unless you've been in the set for a while then you can escalate more). What I tend to do is use minimum words and maximum body language. Smile, make faces, and use non-verbal push pull - ESPECIALLY on the dance floor. When you're dancing well, a playful 'push' away well make them come back 90% of the time, lowering their value and making you the prize, also creating attraction. Talk only when you need to. They say not to peck but as long as you get the girl pecking too (i.e. matching your body language which = rapport) then it's ok. Once on the dancefloor you should either isolate when they're ready or if they want to have a fun girl's night out then push for the #close, although this is more difficult than normal #-closes as you are lowering the energy by stopping them dancing. If you can't isolate, assuming you're coming from an abundance-mentality, in my opinion best thing to do is end the set on a high and something that is unique, like a cliff hanger. This maximises their chances of coming back to you or responding to you positively when you see them later in the night. |
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| Author: | King of Hearts [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:38 pm ] |
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You can still build attraction with out talking but I think that if you cant talk its really difficult to build comfort |
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| Author: | Chief [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 2:14 am ] |
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Quote: "the dance floor is a trap"
No, more like "the dance floor is an excellent opportunity to kino-escalate like a madman"
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 3:30 am ] |
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I've found that the dance floor isn't a great place to open, but it's a very good place to escalate kino like Chief said. I can't dance, I still have a blast though. (Yes, I'll tell a girl this too.) |
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