Dear Xfman...
You're a Seducer brain,
cool, me too
ROFLNow, what Xfman said is very very true Cutter
Just like giving a compliment, buying her drink or anything else MUST have a reason.
The only reason why you should give/pay her something is if she deserves it.
This is called COMPLIANCE
How far is she willing to make you pleased?
If she does something that deserves your attention, then you give her affection, if she doesn't, why would you?
The further she tries to win you over, the more you give her,
get it my brother? cool
I would say this is the hardest part of the game, and one part where men fail
When a woman starts giving them something, they automatically give in and act pleased,
You never do, not if all you wanna do is get laid
If you're looking for a relantioship, then you can.
So, let's review
Compliance is how much she does for you,
Examples:
- A girl ignored YOU when you offered her a drink
LOW COMPLIANCE
- A woman ignores another guy to talk to you
HIGH COMPLIANCE
- The PIMP who has all his ho's on the corners so they can meet his needs
TALK ABOUT COMPLIANCE!
Of course you dont need women to sale themselves to please you (and you better not),
So, if you wanna buy the girl a drink, forget about what other people say, just remember to ask yourself "how much has she done to earn it?"
If and only if YOU FEEL she's done enough, you do it
If not, you can do cocky & funny, and reverse it on her