Johnny Wolf's Get a Date by Valentine's day Challenge!
(Revised for 2009)
Hey guys, it’s only a few weeks away from Valentine’s day and if you don’t have a girl in your life yet, or you want an upgrade, take my challenge.
If you follow my rules I guarantee that you’ll have a date by v-day. It’ll be fun and easy. Last year when I first posted this challenge on my blog we had a ton of guys commenting saying they got massive success from it.
Today: Go to Rite Aid, Sav-On, Walmart, Target, Boots might have it too or any store of the such and buy three boxes of cheap valentine day cards. They come in 32 packs and are about $3 each. Remember giving these out in elementry school? And you had to give one to each person in your class or none at all? Those are it! And remember the funnier, sillier and cheezier the better.
Tomorrow: You have a couple different options when it comes to what to write on the cards. I've tried it different ways with various results, but at the end of the day, every way works it just depends on how comfortable you are at following up the conversation. I suggest picking the one you are most comfortable with.
Option #1: Write your name and contact info on the cards. You can put down your email, phone number or both.
Option #2: Write a little note saying “I thought you were cute” or “Coffee?”
Option #3: Leave it blank. And stay and chat with her.
Carry them around with you at ALL times. A minimum of 10, put some in your car, your wallet, jacket and pants pockets. You'll never know when you'll walk by a cute girl that you'll want to give it to. Trust me, the most random times are the best, so keep them on you at all times even if you're just going to the grocery store or walking your dog.
For the next 14 days: Your goal is to give out 8 a day for the next 14 days. That’ll be 112 girls that you will have asked out on a date and have your phone number. When was the last time you were able to give our your number to 112 girls in two weeks?
Who to give it to: Any attractive woman you see, ANYWHERE. Because it is such an easy little gimmick, you can give it to women you pass by on the street, in elevators, at restaurants, in the mall, and of course night clubs and bars. I've given it to the girl at the drive through window, the hostess at a restaurant and girls at the next table while we were eating.
What to say to the girl:
“Hi, I wanted to give you a valentine’s day card”
“Hi, I know I don’t know you yet, but here.”
“I just had to give this to you”
“Will you be my valentine?”
Or if you’re really shy, just go up say hi, hand it to her and walk away.
Field Tested: Come on guys, would I really send you out as sheeps among wolves? Well, maybe. But I loved this idea so much that I’ve been personally been using it for the last few days. I’ve used it to easily grounds with guys and girls, random passer byers on the street, girls at the post office, a girl sitting with her co-workers, everywhere. I've had great success with it last year, as well as my friends.
If a girl calls you out on it, just admit to it, and say, “Is it really so fucking wrong to want a date on valentine’s day?” And either let her apologize and keep talking to her, or next her. You have 112 opportunities in the next 14 days. Make the most of it.
More Help:
If you feel like you need more help you can always turn to a professional dating coach and take a bootcamp. For those who don't know, a bootcamp is a three day small group private workshop where the instructor figures out your strong points as well as what you need to work on.
Common exercises include fixing body language, teaching you how to project your voice, make proper eye contact, and when and how to touch. Other exercises include what to say when approaching a girl, what to do if there are guys in the group, and where to take it from there. On all three nights we go out to a bar or a club to practice what you've learned, then we go over your successes as well as figure out what you need to improve on.
This is your life, seize the day, and don't put off happiness, sex, and love for another year.
