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| Author: | phorm [ Wed May 02, 2007 8:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | I got no life. What should I talk about? |
I'm talking to like 3 different girls on the phone now and I'm feeling a lot better but I have no idea what to talk about anymore. I don't have much going on in my life except for work and working out. What the hell should I talk about? Thanks. |
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| Author: | excitement [ Wed May 02, 2007 10:34 am ] |
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Use your imagination!! If that does not do it for you, when your out and about think about things that you can perhaps bring up in conversation. I'll give you some starters on what girls love to chat about and that wont make you bored out of your mind 1. Holiday destinations - where you've been, where you would love to go. 2. Friendships - talk about a habbit (good or bad) that your friend has and that will get her talking about her friends and you will learn something here. 3. College - Or wherever you guys went to learn. Ask why it was good/not so good. Convo will continue from there. Phorm - If your in the early stages of phone convo with an HB i would recommend keeping them to under 7 minutes in length. Remember - your a busy guy and you have plenty of things going on beside her (atleast have her think that!). Tell her from the beginning you cant chat for long. Good luck! Respect, Excitement |
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| Author: | FEEL [ Wed May 02, 2007 10:13 pm ] |
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Quote: 1. Holiday destinations - where you've been, where you would love to go.
word to that. i read a study someplace where they said that the number one best chat up topic is travel.
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| Author: | osiris [ Wed May 02, 2007 10:21 pm ] |
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Stupid little stories are great. Ill give you one of mine. About a week ago i was sitting at home when fed-ex dropped off a package to my house. I figure it's for someone else, but when i go get it the package is addressed to me. I spend a minute thinking to myself "did i order anything lately... or did i by any chance sign up for an free shwag?" So when i cant think of anything i open the box up, and its got a smaller box in it. I open that and inside there's an award. A nice shiney curved piece of glass for 5 years of excellence in the Central Maine Power Company. So now the only wierd thing is that I live in NY and main is about 600 miles away, and even better the last time i checked my name wasn't Rodney G Wallace... I use pauses, and jump off into tangents from this story, and the girls absolutely find it hilarious. The best part was the fact its entirely true and shows how random and funny my life is. So in short you should be able to take even the smallest little stores and turn them into stories to show you are interesting and to draw out information about them so you can talk about subjects you two have in common to build rapport. |
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| Author: | phorm [ Wed May 02, 2007 11:28 pm ] |
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thanks guys. I really like one of these girls. She's calling me almost all day long now. Here in a bit, she's going to call me for the 3rd time today. What does that mean? I don't know because I've never had a girl call me this much in one day before. She's got a cute voice and I like her so it's cool with me. Only thing is that I'm running out of topics. Anyway, thanks for your help, I thought of some stuff to talk about. |
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| Author: | El Tiburon [ Thu May 03, 2007 12:11 am ] |
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The fact that she is calling you all the time is an IOI. It still depends what you guys talk about thought. I mean I had this girl call me 20 times a day but it was strictly business, so I know it wasn't IOI. Regardless, when she calls you tell her you gotta go, that you are busy and you don't have time. Remember portray an image that you are busy, you got shit going on and you don't sit around waiting for some random broad to call you up. Don't fuck around too much thought. Take her out on a date and close her. |
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| Author: | Valence [ Thu May 03, 2007 1:06 am ] |
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Pick up a magazine and talk about different articles... Better yet, use a girl centric type article. Cosmo whatever. Use some story about why you were reading it. (standing in line at a grocery store) Then use it to neg her: Do all girls think this way? Do you read this junk? What is this really about? Have her tell you a story, you just listen. C1-C3 done.... |
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| Author: | Romeo7 [ Thu May 03, 2007 6:34 am ] |
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Phorm, look man, I'm feeling quite kind today, So I'll give you a lil bit of tough love today, ok? cool. Look, if you have three girls calling you, is not just by coincidence; YOU MUST BE DOING SOMETHING GOOD, you agree so far, good? Just be reading at your posts I can tell right away what your sticking point is, and it's a very painful one. "YOU'RE STILL SEEKING APPROVAL" Plus "YOU NEED MORE INNER-GAME WORKOUT" Do you know what the point of conversational skills? It's to get a person to open up, but if you have three girls calling you, they must have already open up to you, so you problem is not knowing what to talk about, or how to talk about it; it's not DECIDING YOURSELF to do it, I bet you half of the people here don't have three girls calling them, and they are here giving you advice. So when you post here on what you "NEED" to talk about because you wanna keep them interested, you're just lowering your value, ask yourself this, Do I really need to come up with topics? or is it the way I say it that conveys personality? I can bet you a hundred bucs the experts, the real experts, will say it's the way you say the one that conveys more personality and adds more attraction. Don't forget to do, what got you there in the first place... Finally, Accept your progress man! And give yourself credit for it, if possible exaggerate it Wake up and make the calls yourself, dont make me go there and bitch slap you, so you wake up. * So stop seeking approval, from them and from us, and people around you, you don't need it, so STOP ACTING LIKE IT. * Where is your confidence at? I can't help to wonder that You fake feeling confident when talking to these chicks, and that's what's stopping you from moving on or is it that you juts "forgot" Think about it |
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| Author: | veryEnglish87 [ Thu May 03, 2007 7:29 am ] |
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It's a fact that women talk at least 4x as much as men, so use that!! If you run out of things to say just ask her a question or two until she gets going on something then you can chip in on her topic. Plus don't talk to her as much on the phone, take her out!! |
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| Author: | excitement [ Fri May 04, 2007 12:24 am ] |
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Everyones right here Phorm, your on fire if you got 3 gals calling you. Use that as a confidence boost when you next see either of them. Your mindset - "i have 2 others lined up so she better impress me!" Try and limit these phone calls as well, they are unnecessary .As everyone has said here your a busy man you dont have a lot of free time for these convos. It sounds to me like you need a bit of work on your inner game. |
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