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Author:  butterfield [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Activities that make you more confident
Here's a start:

- Boxing
- Joining a band
- Game
- Dance classes

Any other suggestions?
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 4:14 pm ]
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Martial arts
Parties
Performing arts
Speeches
Author:  madals [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 6:07 pm ]
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Team sports,
Sex,
any job that makes you talk to LOTS of people (sales, till work)
Author:  ConvAZN [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 12:53 am ]
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Anything that you can find personal validation in rather than look for it via your actions with women.
Author:  BetaMale [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 1:15 am ]
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The #1 is definitely starting your own business. I started one and its helped DHV a ton even though it hasnt made a dime yet!

Honorable Mentions:
1. Playing an instrument/being a DJ
2. Rock Climbing
3. Team Sports (studies have shown women prefer men who play team rather than individual sports)
4. Yoga
Author:  smartass [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 3:19 am ]
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any job that makes you talk to LOTS of people (sales, till work)
Toastmasters.

It's like speech and confidence building for business professionals. Guaranteed there are meetings in your area. You can drop in to meetings for free, but if you stick around long enough they might ask for dues.

Had to do it as part of a college speech class. Sucked ass, but definite confidence builder and glad I did it.

What do they do? Well, for instance, you talk to a group of 5/10/20 people for 5 minutes about something in the news. Or your favorite season and why. Or about yourself. They go round robin and then there's usually some official business or people making speeches to get them crossed off their "list".

They will critique you for fillers (umm... ehh.... like) and tonality, confidence, etc.
Author:  Nogame [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:29 am ]
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-Just not giving a fuck.

Noone can bring your confidence down if you just don't give a fuck what they think. This is a limiting factor I see for most people, they get too caught up in caring what other people think of them. Go around not giving a fuck.
Author:  Chief [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:17 am ]
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Sex,
Madals pwnd this thread

Great suggestions from everyone :)
But I don't think "not giving a fuck" is an activity :P
But it IS related.

Butterfield mentioned joining a band and Ezoghoul mentioned performance arts. Let me tell ya, performing on stage in a band in front of a buttload of people is quite an experience. To give a good performance, you have to learn stage presence. To have good stage presence, you have to develop confidence and have a certain degree of "not giving a fuck." It's just like pickup.

Being in bands has made me better in pickup and pickup has made me a better musical performer. Confidence all around! :)
Author:  LatinLover101 [ Wed Nov 26, 2008 6:25 am ]
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Nobody has mentioned signing up for a gym or going to one more frequently. Taking care of your body and health is one of the most important things you can possibly do to when it comes to pick up and life in general.
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