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Author:  seanjohn [ Mon Apr 02, 2007 9:24 am ]
Post subject:  Kiss Closed... txt the next day... no response... now what?

The subject pretty much tells the story. Got introduced by a friend Saturday night... met her... dismissed myself to "hang w/ friends"... friend told me to 'go for it'.... return 30 mins later.. buy her a drink... convo.... crafty kiss close... a couple makeout kisses.... talk about hanging on Tuesday... get the #...

Sunday afternoon... txt... "nice hanging w/ you last night... u still recovering?... i know i am" (i got drunk)..

No response.

Now.... do I call tomorrow (Monday)... or wait until Tuesday?

Additionally... I think I'm ok if she answers... my fear is she doesn't answer and then I have the voicemail dilemma. I don't even think I'm THAT interested in the girl but more intrigued by the game I've been crafting. I'm 27 and she's 21... easily a 8.5HB.

Tips? Thanks guys!

Author:  Impact [ Mon Apr 02, 2007 11:26 am ]
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Ah, well i think because you kissed her, she feels like shes now been too easy. And thats not the type of person she wants to portray herself as.

Id send a msg saying, 'Omg who plays that song, you spin me right round baby, right round???' Ive been looking for it everywhere.. ' If she doesn’t reply just move on, and next time don' t hurry to kiss a girl, and dude don’t deal with the answer machine/voice mainly. And don't worry if you don’t get a response, forget it. Alot more girls out there man!

~ Impact

Author:  Slipfinger [ Mon Apr 02, 2007 2:02 pm ]
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And mate dont be texting her the next day, wait awhile let her think bout you!

Author:  Methuselah [ Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:38 pm ]
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don't sweat it bro, call her on tuesday and don't ever text the next day, in fact don't text a girl until she has texted you. its just gay and beta-male-ish. if you have something to say to her, call until its "safe" to text things to her (further in relationship)...

if you call and she doesn't pick up don't leave a message, i never do. most people will call a number back that they don't recognize because they are curious anyway.

Author:  seanjohn [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 2:30 am ]
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Good points guys. I just think the problem with txt message is that you never can really tell how comfortable people are using it as a means of communication. It can be perfect if effectively used though. Oh well.... I'll wait 'till Tuesday and call. If she doesn't call back I'll DTB and move on.

Author:  Corso [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 11:05 pm ]
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I always thought text messages were a more nochalant way of contacting a girl.. I use it all the time.
But now I realize it's probably not..

What a jerk that makes me.. :S

But seanjhon since she didn't answer I wouldn't even bother calling..

Contacting her twice makes you her bitch and its always bad in my experience..

Author:  seanjohn [ Wed Apr 04, 2007 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  UPDATE

So... I called today and she answered. She sounded ridiculously sick (like she was hacking up a lung...haha). I talked w/ her for a minute or two and said, "hope you didn't give me ebola the other night..." and told her I'd call her later. I guess we'll see how things go...

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