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Author:  Mr. Fickle [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Ever told a girl how you were playing her?
how'd that work for you?
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 4:11 pm ]
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I have told women that I am learning how to pickup women and tell them where most people go wrong etc to be honest its a pretty standard move in my game especially on nights where every guy in the club is an asshole AFC or AMOG (a surprisingly similar thing).

So yeah long story short be honest with the women in my experience they have appreciated a little honesty.
I actually broke down and critiqued a guys opener on a girl infront of her last night and left with her email address.
Author:  DeanClean [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:04 pm ]
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I've told girls about the game, pick up theories. If nothing else it is just a fascinating subject to talk about and of course girls will have lots to say about it. The best is mentioning a pick up theory that seems a bit counter-intuitive, such as neg theory, having the girl say no way, and then demonstrating it right in front of your real target on someone else. If it works, it is a major major DHV, and a fun little game
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:10 pm ]
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especially funny when an alpha walks up and runs a crappy line whilst you are explaining it lol
Author:  Musterion [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:03 pm ]
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especially funny when an alpha walks up and runs a crappy line whilst you are explaining it lol
Even funnier when you come in just after in my opinion. Last night I was talking to a buddy of mine about PU stuff (a guy not girl but nevertheless) we saw these 2 girls ahead of us, lets say a HB5 and HB7.5 then we saw 2 guys go straight up to the hotter of the 2 and they effectively blocked these girls path. I then gave my mate a 10 second countdown before the guys got blown out, we walked past and sure enough 5 seconds later we turned around to look and the guys had gone lol at which point we burst out laughing. The girls caught up to us and we had a little chat for a few minutes but I wasn't looking to close so as my mate flagged down a taxi I swiftly ejected.

I love it when stuff like that happens when you're explaining things to people that they are skeptical about, just so I can say "see, told you so" :D
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 11:53 pm ]
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hehehe that is something I chat about with women, big man to scared boy in 10 seconds lol
Author:  thatkidej [ Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:22 am ]
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I've said it before, but I usually stress that I'm more into social psych than straight up PUA. Sure, I mention that it fits into social psych, but that's not why I'm learning it.

Usually it's no big thing, but I've only told a few girls about it. The words "pick-up artist" make you seem like you scheme to get women into bed, but if you have a genuine interest in psych and as a result are better with people, women find that attractive.
Author:  Brenoporra [ Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:54 am ]
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i think people judge me enough already to do so
Id rather say I like rading about social dinamics or that I like to provoke a reaction on people...
Author:  Kalel [ Mon Sep 29, 2008 5:10 am ]
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There are certain aspects about PU that I talk to women about, but I’m never called myself a PUA in front of a target or even use the word pick up (there is a very sleazy stigma associated to that word. I think that’s why some people started using the phrase social dynamics instead.). I like to explain the parts about what makes a woman attracted to a man, because at the same time you can act it out and actually get her to help you attract herself. I started doing that after I saw a youtube video of Mystery explaining attraction to a bunch of women. At one point he’s naming IOIs and one chick says “I’ve done that like ten times so far” and he says in an Amog way “I’ve noticed that and I appreciate it, but we’ll talk about that later”.
Author:  Fame2Advancement [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 10:49 am ]
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This is a basic concept of PUA that shouldn't be up for debate, it should be something you do naturally anyways.

If you feel that the interaction has stalled or you lost her before getting "the outcome" be it sex or setting up a day 2, ask for "constructive feedback".

So if by 12.30am the spark isn't there, say someting like, "Its been a pleasure meeting you, I have really enjoyed this interaction, you are an interesting person. However I sense some hesistancy on your part, I'm out socialsiing with new people tonight- did I make a good impression?"

Asking for feedback you get some interesting answers which helped me back when I used this technique.
"No such thing as failure, only feedback"

If you have gotten an F-close, just use the Style Line "When did you realise you were attracted to me?"
Author:  The Doctor [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:47 pm ]
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lol, I've actually gone so far with a target as to label the things I was doing out loud to her and giving explainations.

I LOVE using it for LMR freezeouts... they put up last minute resistance... I respectfully say I understand and disconnect from them physically and turn my back... they ask whats going on... I explain: This is something called a freezeout... You see when a woman truly wants to be with you... but is afraid to because she thinks you'll think less of her because of it, sometimes you have to step away for a minute and let her think about it, and realize how much she misses your contact, your affection your warm soft touch... after she has realized and understands that you do respect her as a woman and won't think less of her... then you can build a true connection
Author:  A Minor [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 11:59 pm ]
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lol, I've actually gone so far with a target as to label the things I was doing out loud to her and giving explainations.

I LOVE using it for LMR freezeouts... they put up last minute resistance... I respectfully say I understand and disconnect from them physically and turn my back... they ask whats going on... I explain: This is something called a freezeout... You see when a woman truly wants to be with you... but is afraid to because she thinks you'll think less of her because of it, sometimes you have to step away for a minute and let her think about it, and realize how much she misses your contact, your affection your warm soft touch... after she has realized and understands that you do respect her as a woman and won't think less of her... then you can build a true connection
That is beautiful.
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