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Author:  Untouchable3 [ Wed Sep 24, 2008 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Flirty HB9,5. Need HELP!!!
So there is this HB9,5 (she's also 17 like me) that was in my school (now she is in another/easier school).
We were together 2 times just for one night. First time we were both drunk. Second time (not to long ago) she was a little drunk and I wasn't and I was playing hard to get (I am the prize etc.) , later we were together again.:)
The problem: She is really flirty with all the other guys and she have them wrap around her finger! But she told me Im different and that she can't do that with me.:) And she said that is strange.. How should I reply to this??

She is testing me with questions like: Are you mine? And I reply with something like: I'm yours if you are willing to share me with Tanya and Maya etc. A lot of times (actually all the time) she is acting like she is really interested in me etc. Is she just testing me? I think not.. but i think If I show her to much interest, she will lose interest in me.
I told her she can't have me so easy and that Im hard to maintain, and she said something like Maya and Tanya can maintain you and I will have you. So I said haha your funny etc. Later when I told her that there are three things I like on girls (Mistery style) she was dying to know what they were and which one she doesnt have. I didn't told her.
So.. how should I act when Im around her? What should I do? Need some help. Is she just playin' with me? Do you have any good lines and could tell her?
Thanks guys.. I REALLY NEED HELP with this girl! :D :? :?
(Sorry for my english)
Author:  Bonita [ Wed Sep 24, 2008 6:42 pm ]
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Sounds like you are the only guy she can't control and it is killing her. You may be right...as soon as she gets you she may lose interest. It is hard to tell her true intentions without ever knowing her. But if you really like this girl proceed with caution...it seems like she is just trying to get you to play into her game.
Author:  Plethora [ Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:42 pm ]
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Give her hoops to jump through and get her to qualify herself to you. Then run a bait hook real release routine (credit to Mystery) such as.

"What is your passion? If you could do one thing what would it be?"
-her "Blah blah"
So if she says something like 'travelling' then "That's crazy! I've always wanted to go around the world and see new places, meet new people. It's so cool that you are so adventurous like that! I love it! I can't even talk to you right now." (Or whatever it may be. The point is to show a lot of interest in a previously unknown part of her personality)Then turn away and ignore her for a bit.

Make sure that she needs to earn validation from you, and not by her looks or how hot she is. Make her feel as though she needs to pass your tests to be welcome into your world.
Author:  Untouchable3 [ Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:56 pm ]
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Thanks. Any other advice? I would really appreciate it.
:? !
Author:  Kalel [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:11 am ]
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You should use some disqualifiers or negs first, then try some complacency tests involving kino, then escalate kino to an f-close.
Basically neg her to lower her value and Dhv yourself to make yourself seem more appealing to her (you’ve done a really great job so far). Or use statements that make it seem like you don’t want to be with her. Example if she’s a brunette, “You’re a really great girl, too bad I only date blondes”. When you do this, start with a compliment to make her feel like you’re interested in her, then use the disqualification statement to show that she has not won you. This will make her chase you.
You need to give her complacency tests. Slowly at first, make her do things for you. Hold your drink, hand you something, play along with a routine. Just keep it simple at first, and then escalate it. The idea is to turn the table on her, and get her wrapped around your finger.
Most importantly, don’t be afraid to kino but don’t let her use it as a power ploy. Make sure you kino so she feels comfortable with your touch and closeness, but don’t let her use your own kino to control you. I would suggest balancing kino escalation with negs. That way she thinks she has you under he sexual control, then you neg her and she will be confused.
Author:  abe3 [ Sat Oct 04, 2008 3:32 am ]
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yeah sounds like u cant ever let her 'have you' but what u can do is tell her something sweet after she says something sweet etc and then take it away later on when she is being cold
sounds like u got it pretty good though. btw my opinion on the whole i think shes a 9.5 is that everyone that u find that attractive in real life, finds you equally attractive back. see this so many times in friends and situations myself were u think they are maybe to good for u but really they r thinking the same about your looks
Author:  Untouchable3 [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 10:22 am ]
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Thanks for your help guys.
I saw her again on a friday night when I was out with my friend. When she saw me, she was standing 7 meters away from me and started running towards me. And she hugged me and she was really happy. Later she was touching my new pullover and complimented it and I was like: Slow down girl, thats just for looking not touching. Then I said to her friend: Is she always that rude lol. In playful way. Later she said that I should come to a bar where she will be (because there were all of her friends) but I came there after an hour/hour and a half . Was that a good decision?
Then when she saw so me, she came right to me with her friend to be there and left one of her friends standing out side lol. Later her friend came in. (They were all female friends)
Later we were at our table at the bar.. I was sitting on a tall chair and I had my arms wraped around her (she came on to me), but sometimes I would push her away etc.
She asked me: Will you be mine next friday?
Untouchable: If you knew I would be yours you wouldnt have to ask, right? ;) Ou someone is insecure :P (and then kino below her chin) (I said that in front of all our friends)
Later I used disqualifiers like: We could never be together, the whole world would collapse because of jealousy.
HB: Noo..
Untouchable: Hey.. I'm doing that because of man kind. Dont be so selfish
HB: Hehe.. ou come on heh.
Untouchable: We should just stay friens heh ;)..
And I call her names like doughnut etc. xD
And she is giving me IOIs like CRAZY. :)
And I was leading the whole interaction for sure!
Later after 15 minutes they went away, they came back for 5 minutes or so and then they went out. (After an hour or so she went home)
I just hope she is not playing with me lol.
We weren't alone.. So it was hard for me to qualify herself to me.
The problem is when we are out its hard to isolate her. Do you have any suggestion how could I do that? I just don't want it to be obvious, to sounds like I need to show her something.
Thanks guys :D
Author:  Reo [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 4:35 pm ]
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I'm not sure what you mean by
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"We were together 2 times just for one night. First time we were both drunk. Second time (not to long ago) she was a little drunk and I wasn't and I was playing hard to get (I am the prize etc.) , later we were together again."
Its unclear whether you've hooked up with her or have just hung out
Seems like the girls likes you..... for the time being

You're playing too hard to get and overdoing the Cocky funny settle down some you've got to let her win sometimes

Here's another place i seen you're over analyzing:
Quote:
We weren't alone.. So it was hard for me to qualify herself to me.
The problem is when we are out its hard to isolate her. Do you have any suggestion how could I do that? I just don't want it to be obvious, to sounds like I need to show her something.
Thanks guys
You're asking about isolation here well...
Had u not been overdoing the CF you would have took hint when she said
Quote:
Will you be mine next friday?
This girl is giving all the signs she wants to go out with you.

Take the Girl Out!! for a walk Park to a McDonalds, movie anywhere will do you'll be alone then you'll be able to close no problem

You're playing too many games and not getting where u want to be. I'm sure next week your be posting on here about how she's not returning your phone calls and is not into you anymore
Author:  Untouchable3 [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 5:07 pm ]
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We hooked up twice. There is an event in one club, so she was asking if Im going to be with her.
But you're probably right.. I should stop a little bit with c&f attitude.
But she is acting pretty much the same with all the other guys.. giving them a whole lot of IOIs and then later she is being cold. But since Im playing with her, acting like Im hard to get, c&f attitude.. she isn't cold to me anymore. Just IOIs :) .
I'm just afraid if I show to much interest she will lose interest in me.
Author:  Untouchable3 [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 6:27 pm ]
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What happened?
When we were talking on msn and I gave her some IOIs, she got all cocky and being cold.
Damn.. this girl is crazy xD :?
Author:  Stetson [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:22 pm ]
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You can't fucking overdo cocky and funny, you are either too cocky and not funny, or too funny and not cocky.

You basically just tripped and started free falling hoping for her to catch you when you threw all those IOI's at her, but she didn't (ofc she didn't, shes a fucking 9.5). You became a wuss, and her bitch shield is now up.

If you ask from me, you were doing well, until when you went raging with that hard-to-get stuff.
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