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| Author: | SKY007 [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 11:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Dont comfort girls to kill ackwardnes>GIVE THEM MORE TENS |
yesterday i snapped, a fat girl gave me a statement of disinterest! what the hell!!!! I opened her with opinion opener, didnt lean in or other bad bodylanguage, gave her DHV story and some routine, while i busted on her C&F style. And I was just practicing, because "i wouldnt even be able to get it up for her". And then all of a sudden i get lots of IODs as if i am a creep! (while my conscious value is 100x higher than hers). now what did i do wrong? i thought about it for hours and NOW I KNOW!! She was fat and I kind of felt sorry for her, so I unconsiously tried to comfort her. I gave her a nice smile and friendly face. I approached her and she felt ackward and I tried to kill/swallow the ackwardness by being friendly.. Like I made a C&F joke and then smiled afterwards to let her know its OK. Now I'm thinking, I probably comfort all girls, even the goodlooking ones. When there is ackwardsness, i try to swallow it myself (eat up the tension myself) just to make her comfortable. I was trying to do it right, BUT THIS IS WRONG! (this makes her comfortable while it makes me nervous and messes up my game, makes her in control while it brings me to a weak position) If there is ackwardness: KEEP IT THERE...YOU DONT FEEL IT, IT DOESNT EXIST FOR YOUR. ONLY THE GIRL FEELS THE ACKWARDNESS > LET HER FEEL IT EVEN MORE BY NOT HELPING HER!!! GIVE HER AS MUCH TENSION AS YOU CAN POSSIBLY GIVE HER, AND STAY COMPLETELY CALM AND IN CONTROL YOURSELF MEANWHILE!! EVEN ENJOY HER ACKWARD TENSION AND LET THIS MAKE YOU MORE CONFIDENT AND CALM YOURSELF... (a bit like she's your nervous little sister and you are her calm bully brother that enjoys her nervousness and makes him even more calm) for a girl all this ackward tension = sexual tension yes, there is a time for comfort, but that comes after you have attracted and qualified her... THE LOGIC = you dont know her in the beginning, because you didnt qualify her yet, so she didnt deserve to be comforted... GIRLS THAT YOU DIDNT QUALIFY (or failed your qualificaion) DONT DESERVE TO BE COMFORTED!! if you comfort them before they deserve it your are just a supplicating AFC.... as if you are so desperate that any woman will do! Didnt try this new mindset yet, but I cant wait to try my new game now... Because i already KNOW that this is going to work (this was my sticking point) this mindset can even be used to fix anything like: when i get blown out from an opener. instead of the ackwardness going to me, i will let the ackwardness go to her! 'walking away or swalling it or smiling to make up' would be like "comforting her", but you can also keep standing your ground right there and increase the ackwarness even more for her! just increase it and increase it.....she will feel tension and she will see/feel that i have none and she will be drawn back to me because of this! this is the way to "plow through"! I AM GOING TO BE SO IN CONTROL BY LOSING MY COMFORTING FRIENDLINESS!!! MAN... THOSE GIRLS ARE GOING TO FEEL TENSION FROM NOW ON! |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 12:44 pm ] |
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Where did you get awkwardness = sexual tension? |
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| Author: | SKY007 [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 10:13 pm ] |
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am not talking about creepy ackwardness, am talking about the normal little ackwardness that can always be present when you meet someone new (just tension / absence of comfort). maybe its an english translation thing.. my native language is not english. i hope you know what i ment its also not the total truth, its a calibration thing, some shy girls require comfort or you cant go anywhere. bitchy girls require to feel tension while you stay calm and do C&F stuff etc. if you comfort a bitchy girl you remove all the tension on her side and ruin the attraction. my fault is that i usually miscalibrate towards comfort (killing tension) instead of keeping the tension for the girl. just wanted to share that with anyone who might have the same problem and where i got if from? i got it from my intuition / analyzing my errors? |
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