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Author:  Romeo7 [ Wed Mar 21, 2007 10:18 pm ]
Post subject:  She sayd "I didn't miss you"

Now I have gotten a lot of shit tests, and one by one, learned before, and past them all, now I can plow most of the shit tests, but earlier today, I saw this chick, who kinda got mad at me, since I was flirting with her sister,
Me: Have you missed me?
She: Not really
Me: (Quite) ouch, I see, tell your sister I said "whatz up", cause i got to go, later
I blew it, I'm not sure if it was a shit test or if she is just plain dissapointed, in any case I don't want to "discard" her, she's too damn hot, like an 11,
Tips, help, anything, comments will be appreacited,
Thanks guys

Author:  RainDog [ Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:20 pm ]
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If your are not sure that you will get a positive response, then don’t ask her if she has missed you – you’re leaving you self vulnerable, because she can easily disqualify you if she wishes to. And when she does blow you of by saying that she didn’t miss you, then stay and chat for a while. If you leave immediately after then she will see that you actually got disappointed and then she will know that she has got power over you.
Unless you know that this girl is into you, then I would properly stay of the sister subject. If this girl is mad at you for flirting with her sister then you to associate other feelings with you instead. Let her experience that you have other things to offer – create rapport.
If she is into you though, then you should of cause make her feel jealous about you and her sister.

Author:  Romeo7 [ Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:32 pm ]
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I appreciate your opinion, and I noticed right away I had fucked, I didn't show vulnerability on that question, I showed it once I stood quite and then left.
Now, I said "Have you 'missed' me?" like in the "I know you have" tone,
I've done this before, and it worked magics, getting responses like "Of course, I was thinking about you all day", but this time, it was about her sister, her sister and I spent nearly two hours on the phone when she was sick, and since then, her sister is all into me.
So when, she said "Not really" half smile/half annoyed
I knew something was wrong, all I said was "Ouch, Im sooo breaking up with you" , she laughed sarcastically, Fuck,
I realized the "CONTEXT", the fuckin context, I didn't go along with the context, thats why I had fucked up,
In a moment like that, it's not proper to go C&F, or punish her, she was somewhat RESENTED, and I fucked up by not going along with the context, so the purpose is How do I fix it?
-Build Rapport
How do I make her re-trust me? and let her know her sister can wait, she's first on line,
(by the way, they are twins, not identical, but both are pretty hot, if you live in LA, let me know, we could wing, and you take care of the sister ;))

Author:  phorm [ Fri Mar 30, 2007 8:10 pm ]
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if a girl told me, "no, I didn't miss you. " . I'd probably say, "this is the last time I'm calling you. Sorry.....see ya in the next life. " and hang up and I would seriously never call her again. That's just me, though. And if she wanted you, she'd have to call you. And I'd probably make her apologize for that bullshit response, too before any further talking. Later guys...

Author:  Desire [ Mon Apr 02, 2007 12:48 am ]
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apologize??? this girls a fuckin 11 ( if your not bullshiting) shes not gonna apologize for that. you were acting too damn needy. i would never ask a girl if she misses me or not because i like having the attitude that "ofcourse she misses me, why even ask" you should work to the point to where you call a girl and she says " i missed you, or i cant stop thinking about you" shes an 11 man. dont ask lame shit like that. and as far as the sister thing goes. i would start making out with both of em then try style's 3 some method. sisters offten do crazy shit.

good luck man,

Author:  seanjohn [ Wed Apr 04, 2007 1:56 am ]
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Sounds to me like you played it perfectly. Consider it a bit of a neg... just try not to sound bitter and give her a little more attention next time you see her... it will be in the bag.

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