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Author:  TRS [ Thu Sep 11, 2008 4:18 am ]
Post subject:  What to do when ...??

Here's my situation: I was drinking in a group last night and this girl who knows one of my friends was there. I built attraction all night with her and towards the end of the night, she told (the entire group) to go clubbing with her on the weekend. I immediately stated that I would not be joining her and she said that my friend (another guy in the group) is coming so he'll make sure that I come.

Is it okay to let a girl dictate when we meet? Am I overthinking things? A friend of mine who is a PUA says to call her and cancel ... or just not show up with the rest of the group (who goes to the club).

Author:  Abdul-aAfc [ Thu Sep 11, 2008 4:59 pm ]
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One rule never say no or yes to invitations from a chick always reply with "maybe" this shows that you might make space and you might not.

I would say turn up but turn up an hour late

Author:  fsidontknow [ Thu Sep 11, 2008 6:56 pm ]
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if you want to go, then go! its not like a date or something is it. go have fun at the party and sarge all night baby

Author:  Stygian [ Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:41 pm ]
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Personally I think you're over-analyzing things here, if she's arranging the event then of course she is going to set the time at which you should all meet, it's not like she's imposing a frame upon you; she's simply saying "Hey guys, we're going to a party at X place on Y date at Z time!"

Were it a day2 with her and she tried to set the time you have a reason to be a little paranoid about it (I guess) but even then chances are she isn't going to try to make you comply with her demands just for the sake of it.

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