Yeah, got a hard case coming here.
Chick is 9-10, we are good friends, been already for some time, and party together pretty often.
Now, when my game is tight in most cases toward new target, as i keep myself pretty good candidate for anykind relationship for any girl.
This time girl already knows what kind i am, what i can offer and so on.
I need to change picture of myself in her own mind.
I sure have joked many times about getting in bed together, as in simple conversation. Taking maybe her good friend with us.
Anyway, i always bring erotic/sexual SPAM with me. I know she doesnt
dislike me, not sure have she tot about me some other way. I know tho she likes me as FRIEND and i am not eager to have anyhing else, but the thoughts about having a chance to seduce her is circuling my mind.
Now, i still keep this pick up thing as theory. Even tho i do believe with right lines, appearance and acting you can seduce almost any woman. Still i think i am more like "Juggler", going spontaneous on things and basing my ideas and appearance on a happening moment.
First thing i have started to do is being abit more distant, socializing more with others. Yeasterday i saw it worked a bit, but need alot more time to see it for sure.
2nd i was thinking to say more times NO, and being maybe a bit negative toward her. We'll see how it will go.
Now, if there some rock hard Pick Up Artists, that can give advices, i sure will listen, and if the right moment occur might even use something.
My mind is my worst enemy, here i am ready to ruin a perfect friendship over a stupid need of desire.
) The fact is this, juggler isn't really a pickup artist, he's a gifted conversationalist and a rather unique individual so he's hard to copy. His book is good for "lines" but if you have a structure that you can use again and again, you realise its not really about lines.