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Author:  Pesmerga [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Anti-Cute
Two part Question:

1) When a girl calls you cute, do you see it as positive? I personally can't stand it.

2) Does anyone have a good return neg, or smart comeback from being called cute?
Author:  madals [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:16 pm ]
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Is it a common phrase used by your social group/age group to describe some1 as attractive?

/madals
Author:  Pesmerga [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:20 pm ]
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I'll elaborate. I don't mean associating it with physical appearance. More in the context of:

*That was so cute
*How cute of you

I have no idea why I've always thought of it as negative. There's just seems like way more positive things to say.
Author:  noseque07 [ Fri Aug 15, 2008 11:46 pm ]
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maybe a good idea, is to switch it... as if they were actually saying you were cute.

Example: she: "that was adorable, it was cute."
you: "yeah, i get that a lot because of my looks... " or something like that.
Author:  Chief [ Sat Aug 16, 2008 12:54 am ]
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Quote:
"Atleast one of us is cute :-)"
I laughed out loud :lol:

I prevent this from happening in the first place by setting the frame I want as soon as possible. When she does something I see as slightly silly in any way, I call her out on it by saying "Cute." or something. This puts her in the frame of being cute, girlie, feminine, babyish, etc. etc. etc., all those things you DON'T wanna be. If she tries to put ME in that frame after I put her in it, that feels like a social violation, and girls generally don't like being social violators.
Author:  fatboyrunfat [ Sat Aug 16, 2008 5:21 pm ]
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There was a post which i started on the newbie questions recently about what to say when a girl says you are cute, try looking on there
Author:  Killians [ Sat Aug 16, 2008 6:11 pm ]
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aww you are so cute :wink:

Its not necessarily a negative thing. I will say that if the guy has some quirks that I find attractive/cute. It means that your personality shines. Although I can see how it can be interpreted as negative when you are trying to establish an alpha male frame. Also, probably not a good thing if you just want to get laid. Very rarely are "hot I want to fuck you right now" guys put into the "cute" category.

Hobbit's comment was good. :lol:
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