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Author:  justme16 [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 12:59 am ]
Post subject:  What IoI's are you using?
I Have trouble thinking of iois to give to a women when im sarging I'm wondering what do you guys use when your sarging with a women?
Author:  leftytheking [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:14 am ]
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An IOI is not a set pattern; IOI stands for Indicator of Interest.

How would you, personally, show a girl you are interested in her?

You could:

Smile
Give her a pet name
Wink
Let her catch you checking her out
Maintaining a lot of Eye Contact (EC)
Give her food or drink
Tell her you're interested (SOI)

There's also body language cues such as:

Hugging
Touching her arm, back/shoulder
Blinking a lot
Slightly raising eyebrows and widening eyes
Make glances at her lips when she speaks
Mirroring her body language (Powerful!)
There's also compliance tests, which you can research if you are unfamiliar with them.

Think carefully about yourself and try to figure out your own personal IOI's.
Author:  justme16 [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:28 am ]
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thank you i guess all i needed was some examples of iois
Author:  santos_br [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:32 am ]
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very good question!

I don't have a standard procedure.. I'm into natural game so..
But normally I do the following:
-Smiling with a "I really like you and you clearly are a special person" face
-Touching her
-COMPLIANCE TESTS! Gotta love them :D I do them all the time and I think it's by far the MOST effective way of displaying alpha behaviour and interest. When you take charge and show women that YOU are the one responsible for the situation, they get wet :roll:
-Standing close to her
-Isolating her
-Looking at her body and apreciating it (Be careful! It's very hard to do this correctly and displaying confidence and value... don't overdo it as well)
Author:  Chucktheone [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:06 pm ]
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Hey

yeah giving ioi's at the right time can clench the deal. i'll explain what i did in context if you like? i went out to sutton UK on fri night place called mosiac. im by no means a master.. im still learning.

she was sitting down with her mates and a couple of chairs were vacant so i pulled in sitting at a slight angle away from her facing my wing. we were talking about our camera phones and taking pictures of ourselves having fun, still in clear view to her and her mates. i was going to turn and ask her if i could take a pic to 'test' the camera but she allready tapped me on my shoulder when curiousity overtook her. i didnt initially give any blatant ioi's and also disqualified myself as a potential suiter. I did this by dissing english culture and girls in a cheeky way (i am from south africa; I remeber saying enlish culture is just about nelson's colomn and fish and chips and she could not stop laughing, and talked about how girls from other nationilities compare much better than them)

Because the music was loud, when i turned to speak close to her ear i occasionaly put my hand on her back while i DHV spike my stories. Also looking at her lips and body. Eventually she was really keen and laughing at anything i said and in return gave her nice smiles. i ended up snogging her after about 15mins.

i left with her facebook, only to find there are thousands with the same name. many more fish in the sea hey !

remember to get a mobile number instead !
Author:  isaac elric [ Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:25 pm ]
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Mirroring her body language (Powerful!)
IOI's.
i have difficulty understanding how to 'mirror' a feminine body if you're supposed to be alpha and masculine at the same time. isn't the body language very much different between the two? exactly how do i mirror a girl? :roll:

thanks in advance
Author:  leftytheking [ Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:05 am ]
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At first, you don't want to mirror her, you want to maintain Alpha posturing and such. But after you isolate and begin comfort-buidling, then mirroring is very useful.

When you "mirror" her, you don't copy her exact body position and movements- she would think you were acting crazy. To "mirror" her, you should send her the same body signals that she is sending you. And not just any signals, either. Only mirror the body signals she uses along with positive emotions.

For instance, if you and her are talking about something that makes her feel good, and she smiles about it, you should immediately smile back. Ask her a question that brings good feelings, and she nods while giving the answer- you nod back.

If you are close enough to her to feel he breathing, match your inhale and exhale with hers. Blink after she blinks.

Also, mirroring can be broadened to more than physical- whatever emotion she is talking about, adjust your body language accordingly. If she's talking about being scared, mirror her emotion by raising your eyebrows and widening your eyes- a "scared" expression by you to mirror her emotion.

At first, don't mirror. But right after you make the connection with her, mirror all the time.
Author:  Ezo [ Tue Aug 12, 2008 12:14 pm ]
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I give her a compliment on something she has actually achieved: Oh, you are a singer, thats pretty cool, now you suddenly got a value.
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