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| Author: | MackB [ Mon Aug 04, 2008 6:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dealing with a specific Shit Test |
How do you deal with this shit test ( or any shit test in general ).. Your on a date or hanging out wtih a girl, and she starts talking about another guy. She would say something like "So last night, I was on the internet, and Phil started talking to me, he's this guy I met at a bar, and blah blah blah". First off, I don't even know who Phil is, she says his name like I should know who he is. Second off, I don't give a flying ___.. So I pretended I wasn't interested. I just nodded my head, waited till she was done her sentence and switched the subject... She also gave me another shit test. She was talking about this one time where she was dating this guy, and she was dancing with him on the dancefloor, and some other dude was trying to talk to her, so her date told the other guy to basically F off. She said to me "well the other guy wasnt hot, so my date had no reason to feel threatened, but.. like what do you think?" and she asked me what I thought about that. trying to see if I was the jealous type or something |
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| Author: | fonzy [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 2:44 am ] |
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Not an expert, but from what i've read, she may be seeing you as more a friend than a desirable sex interest. Changing subjects is good, but if it seems to just keep creeping up, I imagine I would just call her out on it. Something like, "Whoa, I really don't want to talk about other dudes/mates/douches, lets talk about chocolate." If she starts asking you for ADVICE, fuck that. That's "brother" zone...that's friends zone. |
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| Author: | MackB [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 6:04 am ] |
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There's a massive amount of sexual tension between us and we've gone on a few dates and discussed how into each other we are. So I don't think I'm in the friend zone ( not even close ) . I think it's her testing my masculinity. |
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| Author: | Archangel White Rose [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 6:21 am ] |
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I so love this shit test. I used to run into it all the time until I finally figured out what to do and how simple it really is. It never really feels good when a girl starts talking about other guys, or about how sexy some celebrity looks or how her relationship with her ex went right or wrong. It never feels good to have that helpless feeling trying to get her off the subject in a way that shows that you don't care too much when you actually care a lot. Well, the solution is quite simple, you do the same to her. I was on a date with this one girl at a mall (bad place for a date, btw, unless you're 15) and she started talking about the newest Brad Pit flick and how he is soooooo sexy in it and how she'd do anything to be with him (talk about annoying, as she's on a DATE with ME) Well, what I did was quite simply talk about a female celebrity (can't remember who) and remarking on how she not only looks pretty but also has a great personality and is such a nice person. The following went like this: WR: "I'm just saying, the things I'd do to her..." HB: "well, what about me?" WR: "what about you?" HB: "aren't you attracted to me?" WR: "well, she is this and this and this, and I would SO have sex with her" HB: "well, aren't you going to have sex with me?" No need to say, the rest is rated R. But the lesson is clear, if the girl is shit testing you or bringing up old BFs do the same to her. This will let her know how you feel, it is an excellent way to DHV and it will wake up the jealousy in her forcing her to compeet with bigger-then-life cellebrities. |
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| Author: | MackB [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 8:18 pm ] |
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Thanks WR, that was awesome advice.. I'm going to try that next time.. |
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