Hi guys,
Hitting the town to try a bit of sarging in bars tonight.
My main aim is to just get some conversation flowing and get past my approach anxiety.
Any tips or motivational speak welcome haha.
Cheers
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| Author: | routeone [ Sat Mar 03, 2007 11:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | First night sarging in bars... |
Hi guys, Hitting the town to try a bit of sarging in bars tonight. My main aim is to just get some conversation flowing and get past my approach anxiety. Any tips or motivational speak welcome haha. Cheers
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| Author: | Shaft [ Sat Mar 03, 2007 10:54 pm ] |
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Do not get too drunk..... |
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| Author: | routeone [ Sun Mar 04, 2007 10:47 am ] |
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Ok, not a very successful night really, but I know what I am doing wrong. First bar that we went into I was keen to get straight into things as a good start for the night. The bar was absolutely rammed with lots of cute girls about. I got a lot of eye contact and smiles from this girl who was standing a short distance away but I should of used the 3 second rule, but instead I stood there like a chump trying to think of a good opener, of course as soon as I did this approach anxiety kicked in and I failed to open, leaving the bar shortly after. Throughout the night I ended up just getting introduced to people through friends of friends and not approaching sets I didn't know. I really need to work on my approach anxiety, especially when I can see the girls are clearly open to me approaching. So a bit of a poor start really.  I need a good canned opener really that I can use as a fall back plan if I cannot think up a situational opener. |
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| Author: | Shaft [ Sun Mar 04, 2007 6:30 pm ] |
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Use What's your favorite dinosaur? |
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| Author: | *user deleted* [ Sun Mar 04, 2007 6:57 pm ] |
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Quote: What's your favorite dinosaur?
 oh wow i have to try it.. lets see if it isn't to bizarre
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| Author: | M [ Mon Mar 05, 2007 6:04 am ] |
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Hi RouteOne, I always remember a few things that help me get past approach anxiety. 1st. The majority of girls get screwed by a small number of slimeball players. You and I have to change that. 2nd. Even the best PUA's get approach anxiety. Like Mystery said, you just have to barrel through it. 3rd. The Venusian Arts is all about numbers. A few will catch. A few will give u the cold shoulder. But gotta try the approaches. Just don't be too hard on yourself after the 1st night sarging. I felt like shit for 2 weeks after my first time sarging. But you get tougher as the days go by. Helps to have a wing woman to pre-validate. And try to approach glancing over your shoulder toward the girl. All of this is in the VAH by Mystery. Respectfully, M |
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