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Author:  Vic Vega [ Tue May 20, 2008 1:24 pm ]
Post subject:  dealing with peer pressure and gaming at the same time
i have this problem with my friends where they are always trying to get me to drink until i'm completely wasted.

i have ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEM with this except the obvious fact that it really fucks my game up.

the point im trying to make is that when im trying to be somewhat sober enough to sarge, at least one or two people (even some of the girls) will try to point out that im not drinking enough or whatever, they'll try to put the attention on me that im a bitch or something (i feel that this hurts my game too).

i was wondering what were some really good ways to AMOG this situation, because the last few times i tried to explain myself it didnt work

thanks much
Author:  madals [ Tue May 20, 2008 2:50 pm ]
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Neg - "I dont have to use alcohole as a crutch to enjoy myself.... but tell you what have a drink on me *wink*" for a start, they will never take the drink, if they do they look like fools. Second, u just showed you have higher value and are the centre of attention.

On a side note, leave some nights game free to get totally smashed :P It sounds like you enjoy it hehe
Author:  Vic Vega [ Tue May 20, 2008 4:18 pm ]
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Effin-A Dude! i appreciate the advice

by the way i do love drinking, but around my buddies, anything that goes against it is considered blasphemy
:lol: ......then again, it is college :)
Author:  Durus [ Tue May 20, 2008 6:33 pm ]
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Get some more mature friends. You must be in high school. I have maybe two drinks when I go out (if that) and nobody has ever said anything negative about it.

If you want to go the sneaky route, try pretending you're drinking. If you're at a house party, sneak in some O'douls or put redbull in a solo cup and say it's vodka/redbull.

If you want to be honest about not drinking just be the DD. You're keeping them from not dieing... are they really going to hate on you for that? If so, then you REALLY need new friends.

edit: oh, college. Basically the same as high school... maybe worse.
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