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Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Oct 14, 2016 7:46 am ]
Post subject:  How To Hit On a Girl
Ok, since most of the the "infield PUA" videos out there are more Hollywood than Hollywood itself, I wanted to share this with you all.

I was watching this movie the other day (for the I don't know how many times its been time.. its one of my favorites) and realized that a lot of you who don't understand showing interest without using literal words. (I.e. Body language, eye contact, tonality, physicality)

Here's a clip from The Wolf of Wall Street where Leonardo Decaprio demonstrates pretty fucking perfectly how to hit on a girl or as some of the Poo-ahs may refer to it, using "direct game."

When I say to someone "Hit on the girl!"... this is what I mean. I don't know why this took me so long to share lol my bad. Enjoy 8)

https://youtu.be/fM04zoAmPTs
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 14, 2016 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How To Hit On a Girl
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The Wolf of Wall Street
5 Stars
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 11:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How To Hit On a Girl
As I've been pouring over all the PUA stuff, I've come to the conclusion that: All of this pick up stuff is just copying movie stars/soap stars. CUZ THAT'S WHAT WOMEN WATCH! They swoon over Johnny Depp, Leonardo, Pitt, the Days of Our Lives hunks...etc etc. So just mimic what those actors do and you're golden! I mean...if a girl wants to bed a man...just act like a porn star! Right? Cuz that's what we watch.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How To Hit On a Girl
Quote:
As I've been pouring over all the PUA stuff, I've come to the conclusion that: All of this pick up stuff is just copying movie stars/soap stars. CUZ THAT'S WHAT WOMEN WATCH! They swoon over Johnny Depp, Leonardo, Pitt, the Days of Our Lives hunks...etc etc. So just mimic what those actors do and you're golden! I mean...if a girl wants to bed a man...just act like a porn star! Right? Cuz that's what we watch.
If you are reading pickup material that only talks about vague concepts like being alpha and vibing, I can see where this comes from. However, if you try material that actually explains specific technicals and WHY they are good to do infield it makes a bit more sense. The main reason women swoon over actors and musicians is that it is socially acceptable for them to express their sexuality. It's not slutty to say she wants to fuck Johnny Depp, it is however if she says she wants to fuck you or myself. It's actually just the social frame, which is part of a seduction but not the entire sphere of it.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sat Oct 29, 2016 1:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How To Hit On a Girl
Quote:
As I've been pouring over all the PUA stuff, I've come to the conclusion that: All of this pick up stuff is just copying movie stars/soap stars. CUZ THAT'S WHAT WOMEN WATCH! They swoon over Johnny Depp, Leonardo, Pitt, the Days of Our Lives hunks...etc etc. So just mimic what those actors do and you're golden! I mean...if a girl wants to bed a man...just act like a porn star! Right? Cuz that's what we watch.
1. Pay attention to decaprios eyes in the clip. Pay attention to how he is looking at her. What's the feeling behind that eye contact? Can you find that feeling within yourself and show it to a girl through your eyes? Learn how.

2. Pay attention to his body language. He's facing her. He's showing he's very interested in her and not the least bit interested in the dude she's with. He acknowledges him but brushes him off quickly. Staying focused on her.

3. Pay attention to his tone. The way he uses his voice to make her feel certain emotions. Again, figure out how to find that "sexy place" within yourself and talk to girls this way. My guess is your mother didn't raise you to speak to women this way so it's going to feel uncomfortable at first.

The whole idea of "PUA techniques" is fake it until you make it. If you understand what Jordan Belfort did with his salesmen, it's pretty much the exact same thing. He taught them how to talk like him... so rich people would believe them and invest with them.

How you talk to people has a bigger influence on their opinion of you than what you're actually saying. If you notice is the clip, he just keeps asking her if she's ever been on a jet ski. But he's still hitting on her. Point being, it's not what you say... it's how you say it.
Author:  xopow [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 12:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How To Hit On a Girl
Watched it, but I don't see anything special about his voice.
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